My boyfriends friend is really nice to me and likes to hangout with me. I dont want to hurt his feelings but eeewwwww....... even my boyfriend thinks that my best friend likes me . I think of me as a good friend to my boyfriends best friend. So im nice to him i mean everyone is nice to their friends. But i think he thinks im trying to lead him on. How do I tell my friend that i am not interested with out hurting his feelings and does he like me?
2006-12-20 14:24:21 · 25 answers · asked by kassy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how happy you are with your boyfriend and keep things strictly platonic. Don't flirt with him, don't respond to his flirting, etc.
2006-12-20 14:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt back. I don't think you have to tell him that you are not interested... I don't think he wants to talk about that with you... Why not just display that you are with your boyfriend and you are not available to the man...
Or if he is just being naive, you may wanna show him the way it goes. He cannot mess up with someone's girlfriend because you are taken. That should not hurt him because that is kind of moral.
English is not my 1 st language as you can see. Pardon me.
2006-12-21 03:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you do not need to tell him anything unless he asks you for a date. If he does you can tell him you are just a friend and do not want a romantic relationship with him. There's nothing wrong in people being good friends
2006-12-20 14:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friends bf that you strictly only want to be friends,and nothing more. Tell him now before you hurt his feelings. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 14:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you cannot tell him so you will have to show him that you are not interested in having him as a boyfriend. you should kiss your boyfriend or tell your bf that you love him right in front of his best friend face then he will understand that you don't like him.
2006-12-20 14:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by devon_dvn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you have a boyfriend so just leave it at that. There is no need to hurt his feelings.
2006-12-20 14:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really complement your boyfriend around this guy.he'll get the message and back off. that's from "momma cat".
Make a joke about telling him so you can let him off easy and still be friends!It worked with this boy named Brian.I'm sure it will work! from"Baby cat"
2006-12-20 14:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this is gonna be fun lets see i was in your situatuon before i would talk to your bf and tell him to tell his best friend to back off he should listen if he doesnt then maybe you should tell him that oyu will only ever think of him as a friend hopefully he will listen
2006-12-20 14:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know of any better way to find out than asking him rightout. (That mite take balls.) If he dose, you should tell him how you feel and dont hold back. If hes your friend he will understand.
2006-12-20 14:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy sista!tread with care cuz you never know how he will react but if i was you id have your boyfreind talk to him guys have a easier time taking thst kinda stuff from otherguys rather than girls be nice to him but let him know by your actions that all you are is friends NOTHING MORE! actions are louder than words good luck!
2006-12-20 14:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋