sooooo, me and my boyfriend have been going out for moe than a year now. all of a sudden he just doesnt wanna do stuff with me except do the deed. he doesnt talk, doesnt smile, always frowns, scares my friends doesnt want me to do anything with anyone else, but he doesnt wanna do nethin wth me. what the hel is his problem, coz its seriously jus putting me of now. am i the problem?
2006-12-20 13:54:41 · 16 answers · asked by firefly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've tried to talk to him, he wont talk to me either...
2006-12-20 13:59:44 · update #1
He is a jerk. Stop doing the deed and see what happens.
2006-12-20 13:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old addage - if you're giving it for free why should he work for it?
He's probably an introvert. Was impressing you before to make an effort. Once he found out that he could get you in bed w/o impressing your friends, he gave up.
Move on. Find yourself someone who loves you for you. And don't give out your jewels so easily.
Sounds old fashioned, but men love real women. They will take what they can from a girl who gives it up for free...
2006-12-20 21:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just using you and is probably just keeping you around until something better comes along. His attitude is so negative that you are wasting your time sticking around. We all deserve to be in happy, secure, passionate relationships and yours sounds depressing, insecure, and jealous. Sorry babe, but it's time to make a change and start fresh. Cut your losses now and move forward. Be the one to make the choice before he does something worse and your the one that gets hurt.
2006-12-20 22:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the calm before the break up storm. I think he is trying to hold off till after the holidays.
Sorry hun, get that double chocolate ice cream and sappy movies ready.
2006-12-20 21:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give it up to him until he starts talking. Believe me, you're not the problem. It sounds like he has issues way beyond your control. You might want to consider breaking up.
2006-12-20 21:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that you are the problem. next time he comes around to do the deed, explain to him that you cant and tell him how you feel about the whole thing.
2006-12-20 21:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and ask him whats going one, something has changed and talking is only way to resolve it. you need open communication for any relationship to work, even the tough things need to be brought out in the open and dealt with.
2006-12-20 21:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on girl. He sounds a little controlling.
2006-12-20 21:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. he might just have some emotional stress. the only thing you can do is ask him about it and if he is feeling sad, depressed, etc. then you should just be there for him and comfort him.
2006-12-20 21:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mario C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt love you ne more n he doesnt no how to tell u...
or maybe he just has issues
or maybe u need a break
2006-12-20 21:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by *L-I-V-E* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋