Does God Make Mistakes?

Question

I was diagnosed with depression Recently, after having known that i had this problem for many years. My Refuses to believe that this is a legitimate illness, or handicap, they think I am doing it for attention. I am christian, they are not, I believe in God, they don't. They are doing everything in thier power to Prevent me from getting better: they wont let me go to counsleing anymore, they keep telling me that I am faking this all.
I think that the only reason I am still hear is because I found God about a year ago, and it is my faith that has kept me going.
But I feel like I was a mistake, because I have this problem and dont have the support to deal with and fix it.
So can God make mistakes like me? There isnt anything about Counseling and Mental illness, that I know of in the Bible, so I'm asking all of you for help.
Am I mistake, or just made like this because I am part of something yet to be determined?

Someone asked where the depression came from.
Well first of all it is a chemical inbalance in most cases.
But I think it is because 7 years ago, both of my grandparents, died in a car accident on my 11th birthday. On that day I lost all faith, as well as the rest of my family. Then about a year ago, I found God, but I still haven't been able to find happiness, so after years of knowing there was something wrong, I finally went to a Psychologist, I refuse to take any kind of medication, It is against, my own morals, so the counseling and talking was all I had.

Answer 1

god never make mistakes
god test us to know how much we close to him

Answer 2

God does not make mistakes. YOU are special. Losing grandparents at 11 would be very hard, especially with the impression I get, you were very close to them, Being a Christian does not automatically make you NOT depressed. He can give you a deep seated joy, but as you say chemical depression can be helped by meds as well. You need to continue to find help. I am SO sorry that people close to you think you are faking it. Remember David in the Psalms was not always happy- He was depressed a lot of the time. He trusted God- God drew you to Him. I will pray for you that you will continue to find help. There are christian counselors out there that want to help you. When you said someone refuses to believe it is a illness or handicap. Feel sorry for them. I have a chronic illness that gives me physical and emotional pain- and there are people in my life that thinks it is play for attention too- NO WAY- God loves you and He wants you to be whole, In the process of healing He can be glorified in your life. How does your family feel about you coming to God?

Answer 3

NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!! God never makes mistakes and you're definately not a mistake!!! Everything God does is for a purpose even thogh we may not know what that is. You say you are a christian and that you believe in God. I am a Christian too and I know that you probably feel that God is unfair at times but he's not. He loves you sooooooo much that he died on the cross for your sins. God didn't mess up on you. But then you might ask "If God loves me then why would he do something like this to me?" It is not God, but it is satan trying to tempt you into thinking God doesn't love you. But he does!!!!! He should be your best friend. About the doctors, just pray to God and ask him what to do. Ask him to change their hearts. Ask him to help you with your depression. and when ever you feel sad or depressed, just remember that God loves you and he doesn't make mistakes and you are not a mistake. Just remember God has a plan for you even though you may not know what it is quite yet.


I hope i helped you out just a little.

Answer 4

Some people think that depression is a matter of "self-control"(or even not having enough faith!) and this only adds to guilt and self-defeat. Depression is way more than a feeling, and is NOT a moral defect. You seem like you are old enough to have gotten your own diagnosis without the help of your family, so then just continue with your therapy without consulting them.

No, there is nothing in the bible about counseling and depression, per se, but I don't see what difference that makes. Jesus did say many relevant things that would help you though. When you are sad, for instance, remember Jesus says:"Blessed are the sorrowing; they shall be consoled." He also says " Come to me, all you who are weary and find life burdensome". And last of all remember, when your situation seems hopeless, Jesus also says (in the bible) "For God, all things are possible."

Answer 5

God does not make mistakes. Always remember that as a child of God, you are who God says you are, not who man says you are. And God sees all the potential and possibilities in you. Don’t give up on yourself because you should know with absolute certainty that God will never give up on you.

I believe that often when the Gospel speaks of Jesus casting out demons this is how people of that day interpreted mental illnesses. He was actually curing people with various mental illnesses and addictions.

I also believe that when we come to Christ, he wants our minds to be whole, so the Spirit begins to work on us to help us understand our various problems, whether they be depression, anxiety or addiction. This is why it is easier for us as Christians to address these issues and talk about them openly, instead of sweeping them under the carpet. We know we have a constant companion in the form of the Holy Spirit who is constantly encouraging us to become stronger.

I think it is a great shame that you are not getting the support you need from those in your life. I would encourage you to go outside your family/support system and seek help. Find a minister you can trust and ask about finding a good Christian counselor. If your church is not giving you the emotional help you need, look around for another church. Don’t be shy about asking questions.

But you obviously know that you need help and that the Spirit is guiding you toward finding help. Pray about it. Pray a lot and ask for help finding the right direction.

All the best and I will pray that you find somebody who can help.

No matter what, don’t give up on yourself. Regardless of who is willing to listen, the Spirit will listen and will never abandon you.

Answer 6

I'm sorry you are going through this. If a professional sees that you really are depressed (something I have dealt with) and are not just "faking" it, you should get help. There are several medications that could help you. Just so you know, I don't believe in God and think all religions are bad. I think humans evolved on this planet because life evolves in a universe that has always been around, meaning it was never created.

On most planets, quite by luck and chance, life evolves into consciousness. Just like on this world. It is up to us humans to give our lives meaning. Meaning of life is not by suffering (like religion tries to brainwash you with) but our morality gives us meaning. Love and family and friends and are and beauty also give life meaning but it's our mortality that defines us.

It shows that nothing lives forever and life if so sacred and wonderful. Embrace your true place in the universe and everything will make sense. Trust in the mysteries uncovered in the universe by the only way we know...science. Science shows us that we tiny and insignificant and rare and precious. That is a very humbling thought.

Answer 7

Well, I think your parents are somewhat resentful and that is why they do not believe you.
As for "God" making mistakes, personally I do not believe the God in the bible is what a real "God" would be. He is given too many human like traits and is made out to be childlike in behavior. Either way I do not think a real God would make any mistakes. Instead of looking for support and answers in a book full of flaws, why don't you look inside yourself.
I think the only mistake here, is the mistake of you thinking that you may be a mistake.
If you just need someone to talk to, or just someone to listen. Email me.

Answer 8

Many people, including Christians, suffer from depression. In the Bible there are examples too. Take a look at Elijah and his troubles or Lot. Get some counseling and see your doctor. There is help out there because I've been where you are too. It's not fun but it doesn't have to last a lifetime. PS... your depression contributes to your feelings of worthlessness.

Answer 9

Dear Bri B-
God does not make mistakes.

You are not a mistake.

I know that depression is a hard thing to live with especially without the help of family.

Psalm 139 would be good for you to read.
Psalm 139:13-18
For You formed my inward parts
You wove me in my mother's womb.
I will give thanks to You
for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Wonderful are Your works,
And my soul knows it well
My frame was not hidden from You.
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth;
Your eyes have seen my unformed substance;
And in Your book were all written
The days that were ordained for me,
When as yet there was not one of them.

How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
If I should count them
they would outnumber the sand.
When I awake I am still with You.

Also read Philippians 4:4-9
2 Corinthians 10:5
1 Peter 5:7

Hope this helps. Keep your eyes on Jesus. Feel free to email me if you would like prayer, or encouragement to read and study the bible.

Answer 10

Honey, you are not a mistake. You need to believe that first of all. God does not make mistakes. He knows what is going on even if we aren't able to see. I am glad you are relying on your faith. Belief is as powerful as counseling. I wish I knew why you weren't allowed to get help. I think that you should find a church and talk to someone there to help you. Most pastors, ministers and priests are trained counselors too. Please be strong and do not give up. There is a reason for this cross that you are bearing.

God Bless you!
Merry Christmas.

Answer 11

I don't believe that God makes mistakes. There are many things that don't make sense in this world, but God knows what he is doing. We probably won't know until we get to heaven.

Take care of yourself and treat your depression. Praying and reading your Bible will help you to continue to feel the presence of God which will help you greatly. May God bless and keep you.