We were doing great...we have been going out a year been through a lot together but sometimes I feel like he doesnt care any more specialy here latly...like i tell him to call most of the time he calls no matter wht but sometimes he will make excusses...I love him with all my heart and he told me that he loved me too but why does he act like that he doesnt care sometimes then goes back to being normal? Should i talk to him about it or should i not worry about it?
2006-12-20 13:25:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He not cheating on me trust me just turst me and dude i used the phone as an example it isnt just the phone
2006-12-20 13:37:24 · update #1
Do not worry about this. Many guys are like this. He says he loves you, believe him. He just has other things to be doing, than chatting on the phone. He knows you'll call him, so he doesn't bother. This is nothing personal. He is simply comfortable in the relationship.
2006-12-20 13:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's feeling like the large guy now he's had you. And that you're like his little female so he can do what he needs to you presently. no one which loves you'd be that cruel to you. I recommend, you at the on the spot are not rushing to communicate about his faults, are you, because you care about him and dont favor to damage him. i imagine you need to maintain in mind that he would not experience that way about you. He of course sees you as extra of a possession than someone who's important to him. once you spoke about breaking apart, you've been attempting to make him be nicer to you, yet all he says is "very well" because he knows you wont do it. THIS, what you're dealing with now, is the reason you want to attend until eventually you extremely extremely understand someone, and characteristic seen their reactions to a lot of circumstances, beforehand you supply them this a lot power over you. you want to carry close you may believe someone beforehand you enable them have some thing they could use antagonistic to you. thus, you're afraid he will bypass and tell anybody that you're crap at giving head and also you'd be ashamed in the front of anybody. So possibly you shouldnt supply it out so extremely? If I were you, i'd split with this guy, and tell anybody that that is because he's poor in mattress. Get there first. He benefits it, he has been cruel to you. Then study now to not be really person-friendly, next time.
2016-12-01 00:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have allot on your mind. Take some time off. Talk to him and figure out why he is acting like that. My boyfriend was acting weird for a little while too, but I soon found out is was nothing to worry about. He just told me that he missed me because i was out of town for a while and he said that he thought it was weird to have a long distance relationship. So when I moved back then everything was just fine and dandy. Everything will be okay especially if you two love each other. I hope that everything works out because I know that he loves you. TRUST ME!! it will all work out. If not, hey sue me. LOL
2006-12-20 13:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Guys are weird like that. Sometimes guys get bored with the same whole routine, and they want to be "alone". I would suggest not naggin him (as least as possible!) The more you annoy him, the more he'll pull back. Not sayign that you do! But just don't think about it too much, just remember whats meant to be will be. "If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if not it wasn't meant" Also, there IS somebody out there even if it may not be him. I'm sure he loves you and everything will be fine! Good luck,. just remember not to read into every detail, and take it easy! :)
2006-12-20 13:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well guys go through mood swings too even though its typical for people to believe its just women. when they have alot on their minds sometimes they just act weird or distant because they are trying to figure out what to do about whatevers bothering them. usually you don't have anything to worry about just let him deal with things and take advantage of the times hes normal!!
2006-12-20 13:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to him about wouldnt no one act wired with the person they have been with for a year come on now and if he gets mad about u wanting to talk about it dont waste ur time cuzz its sumthing he is either doing or getting tired of u and the realtionship yeah its hard but theres plenty more out there that dont have that kind of 2 face crap like he is doing
2006-12-20 13:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let is slide maybe for a week or two just because there could be something on his mind. So give him some space if it continues one last intent to talk and then make it clear if there's no communication there is no need to be together.
2006-12-20 13:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by carolina t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would back off a little bit. he may need a little space. sometimes when we love someone so much, we crowd the person and they will back away. Remember, he said he loves you, give him a little space and don't get all freaky if he doesn't call you for a day.
2006-12-20 13:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by cheoli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe something is on his mind?! Ask him whats up. I'm sure its nothing much and i'm sure after talking about it, it will get better. Good luck.
2006-12-20 13:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about your concerns and see where it goes from there.Sometimes he might have just plain forgot or got busy with something so he didn't call.
2006-12-20 13:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋