Hey i really need some boy advise. I really like this guy but he doesn't know i exist. PLEASE HELP!?

Question

I need to know what to wear, how to put my hair, make-up advise, and making him mine. I would really appreciate help.

I need eerybit of advise u guys can give me. From what i wear to what i do.

Answer 1

Okay. Here is what you need to do.

First of all, I have no idea what you look like, so I will just start from the beginning, assuming you don't know anything.

Since guys are very visual, you need to work on your outward appearance to attract them. Secondly, you need to work on the way you walk, talk and act and what you are on the inside. That is what will keep them around. Looks are only good for attracting, but it certainly won't keep them around if there's nothing to stick around for.

Your weight - Are you physically fit or could you stand to lose a few pounds? Or do you need to gain a little weight? Start exercising and eating right. Join a gym. Get in shape. All guys like that about a girl.

Your hair - generally, guys like long hair. Go to a hairdresser (doesn't have to be expensive) tell her to give you color and a hairstyle that will flatter you. But work on growing it out. If it is already long but not stylish, have them help you with that. If it's long but doesn't look good, it might as well be short. Hope that makes sense. What is your natural color? If it's a drab color, maybe add some highlights. I don't believe in going from dark brown to completely blond. Just work with what God gave you. It will look better anyway.

Your face - Go to a makeup counter and get them to help you. Less is better for most people. If you have a complexion problem, go to a doctor and get it cleared up. Guys like pretty skin. Just accentuate the positive. Make your eyes stand out. If you wear glasses, make sure they're stylish and cute. Ask your friends. Hopefully they will tell you.

Your dress - Dress in a cute and stylish way. I personally do not like it when girls "show it all" up front. Dress in a modest but stylish way. You can do that. Showing it all may attract them, but for the wrong reasons. Dress for your personality. If you're artsy, dress in an artsy way. If you're conservative, dress conservatively. If you're a country girl, dress that way. Whatever you do, be a little flashy to catch their eye. Pink always gets attention.

Whatever you are and however you look, God has someone out there for you that will be attracted to you. It may not be the guy you're thinking of. Most of all, be yourself and work on being a better person so that when you do have someone they will like you. You can be a little flirty, as in smiling and making eye contact, but do not chase them whatever you do. Guys like to chase (most of them). Let them chase you. You can flash a smile or even wink, but don't run after them. Don't call them. Don't e-mail them.

This one certain guy, walk in front of him in a very confident way. Practice at home looking into a mirror. You will get his attention.

Buy the book "Date-able" It has lots of tips on how to get a guy's attention.

good luck.

Answer 2

OK, most guys are naturally attracted to big eyes and full lips. Normally, for your lips you should wear bright red lipstick because it really brings out fullness. W/ your eyes, you should wear eyeshadow lighter than your skin tone and white eyeliner. Get mascara with a COMB not a brush because combs separate better. For dressing, figure out your body shape (pear hourglass petite etc..) And go somewhere like Cosmo to figure out what to wear to play up your shape. Do the same for your hair.Find your face shape and go to Cosmo. As for making him yours, gather up your courage and talk to him. Try to find something that he likes and you like. That'll make it WAY easier to talk.

Answer 3

Trust me, my best friends a player that ***** just about every girl at our school. He just wants to kiss your bang you or whatever and he probably does think you're hot but that's it. Sorry.

Answer 4

in a girl, the style really counts, classy but not too much, the way she moves and talks. i mean look good but not like you were going out on a date, keep the really good stuff for later! as for the hair, simple, as long as i can see her eyes and her smile, it's all good. the best way to meet him is to introduce yourself, but don't let him feel like it's easy, be nice but show that your smart.

Answer 5

Wow, generis Singles and Dating question. when you typed in this question, how many questions just like it popped up underneath in that little rectangle?

It all depends on the guy, but if you want even more answers,just check through all the billions of questions just like yours asked and answered.

Answer 6

first make sure to flirt alot!
second make sure to use rich and attractive colors of lipstick! :D hahaha i go with nice red but not dark rouge :)!
third make sure that you wear clothing that suit your figure! make sureyou best assets are seen!
fourth really talk to him and get to know him! play with your hair girl! ;) I know you can do it! hahaha
fifth be yourself and make him see that he has to show that he wants you too!
good luck hun~

Answer 7

make the eyes stand out