If you have been friends with a guy for a couple of years, and you end up fooling around on more than one occation and you feel that you guys could be more than that, is it bad to ask what his intentions/expectations are?
2006-12-20 13:22:57 · 28 answers · asked by DanniS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask.
2006-12-20 13:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
no its not bad to ask but be prepared to be disappointed most guys that fool around every once and awhile with out a commitment are usually afraid of commitment.and will probably run if they think they are being asked to do so
2006-12-20 13:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by DEWEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask but be prepared for the answer. It may not be what you want to hear. Sounds like he's just using you for fooling around. If he wanted more i would say he would have already let you known.
2006-12-20 13:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask him. He only wants a friend to fool around with & nothing more. Guys like the lack of commitment.
2006-12-20 13:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you KNOW what his intentions are, but it isnt a bad idea to try and initiate an actual relationship instead of a "friends with benefits" situation. but dont put him on the spot and expect something to happen IMMEDIATELY, just be natural and treat it like a relationship. work your way up there and see what happens.
2006-12-20 13:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mastronaut 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Were you drunk at these fooling around times?
If not just bring up the fact that you might like to try more than fooling around here when it is happenning.
Swallow, don't spit, it could stain.
2006-12-20 13:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not bad to ask at all.
As long as you keep the communications going and arebeing honest with each other, the two of ya have every right to ask what each other wants.
2006-12-20 13:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. but sadly enough to some guys that's all that matters. So I would ask because that's where your heart is but be ready for an answer that you may not like
2006-12-20 13:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say it this way.....
" Is it just me or is this going somewhere? Seems like this has become something we hadn't expected."
That puts it into his court for a response.
2006-12-20 13:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look him straight in the eye, and ask. i really don't know about women but they tend to know when we're lying..atleast my gf does. just pick the right time and the right place to ask the questions.
2006-12-20 13:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by rei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know, play around. It too late for anything more. That ship has sailed.
2006-12-20 13:24:58 · answer #11 · answered by sm4125 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋