even tho u see that person alot n he has a new gurl!
2006-12-20 13:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Youre not ever gone get over him completly but just start talking to other boys im not saying go out with somebody else cause you might need time and you dont want to mess with their emotions but just talk to more boys maybe you will see that you dont really want to get over him or maybe you will see the there is somebody better out there for you
2006-12-20 13:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by tizbabymama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear.. it takes time to heal all things and in due time you will get over this person. It may be hard to see him with another girl so I suggest that you stop going where it's possible you'll run into them or see them for a while.
This may sound unfair to you that I am suggesting this, but it's for your own good in the long run.
Take this time to maybe do a makeover do something for yourself.. You must move on and to help in the process get yourself a makeover do something pretty for you!
A new start and new you!!
Stay strong dear and move along stop looking back and press forward.Life is going on with or without you so don't stress this out on what used to be.
It's ok to carry those thoughts of a past love but hes moved on and so should you.
Good Luck and Have a wonderful safe holiday season!!
2006-12-20 13:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am totally with ya on this one. The best thing to do is pin point all the things you dont exactly enjoy about him, things that would never in a million years make the realtionship work, think about this. dont try and get over him all at once, it wont happen. these things can take a little while. Next i allways listen to a "over him" mix of music, a little collection created to really realize that there are better fish in the sea. Be optimistic. There is someone out there for you. They have to find you, and while they are searching, you need to boost your confidence and focous on yourself for a little while. Things happen for a reason, go with the flow, and you may end up somewhere better. Hang in there girl.
2006-12-20 13:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by carla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must not be easy. I think about my ex girl a lot and she just got married to another man. Fortunately she hates my guts and we dont see each other. It takes time and not necessarily a lot of time. Meet another guy and shag him, its the best way. Do things you would not normally do without hurting yourself of course. We have so many soul mates, its all up to you. The moment you let go, new things come. So much trusting.
Take care.
2006-12-20 13:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bacistocaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will always love this person, takes time to get over the pain. and hurt , best to avoid him, and distance yourself as much as u can. seeing him with her must hurt u alot, and every time u see them it brings back the old hurt again. we can't control others only ourselves, but we can control how we respond to the hurt. best thing is to get out, even if u don't feel like it. can't change the past, we can only make a better future.
2006-12-20 13:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your self a new love mate and bring him/her with you wherever you see you ex and act like you don't miss your ex or even that you were ever in love with that person. You know how many singles are actually out there? Go live, have fun, and don't worry about it your life will go on with plenty of happiness.
2006-12-20 13:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Erin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and try not to see him as much as you can and tell your self that every thing will be fine and try to go out on a date find some kind of distraction.
2006-12-20 13:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only "time" will make the hurt go away. It took me about 6 months or so to forget about my ex girlfriend.
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2006-12-20 13:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person before me is right..the longer your love lingers for this person, the harder it will be for you to move on. this is when you need to exhibit your most strngth, i dont know you but i believe in you. trust me youll find a better partner in the ftutre. jut let destiny work its magic.
2006-12-20 13:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Billy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋