My boyfriend drive Trucks for coca cola and and have recently been unemployed and now my car is about to get repo. I asked my boyfriend for some money and he said that he don't have it all I needed was $585 to catch my payment up. Should I cut him loose?
2006-12-20 13:13:23 · 12 answers · asked by redbone 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I hope your boyfriend reads this and cuts you loose!
2006-12-20 14:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by rileysmile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first thought was if you are asking such a question, then I believe that you already know what the answer is.
My second thought is if the two of you are good together, don't break up because he won't give you money. If you are to the "repo point" on your car, it appears that you've been out of work for a little while. He might be thinking that you could've found another job during that time. Fast food places are always hiring until something else comes along.
Best luck.
2006-12-20 21:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, being with him for money is not the right reason, for one. If you genuinely love him, there's no reason to cut him loose, but one should never have to settle. I'd say during your single years, start looking out for yourself. Get a job, learn to stand on your own two feet. Don't know if marriage is in the near future, but you need to be strong as an individual to bring strength to your part of the team. Forget about relying on any man for anything, least of all money. Think of all the other reasons you should stay. If you already have doubts and he's not your husband, then I'd say leave.
2006-12-20 21:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Money is not everything. But, certainly if he is not able to help you with a small amount, it raises questions about his priorities in life. Base your decision on the way his attitude has been after you became unemployed. Is he giving you any respect? Does he take you for granted? Does he make you feel like a loser? If the answer to any of these is yes, he's not someone you can settle down with. Life will have many more ups and downs. Can you depend on him for it?
I am sorry I gave you a lot more questions but, sometimes, we find answers among questions.
2006-12-20 21:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by yday 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is sad for you and your situation, but how long have you been together? Take that into account. Are you living with him? Are you going to get married? If the answers are yes to the last two and he's not willing to help support you, I would consider leaving him. Hope it gets better for you. But also consider this... The amount of money you asking for is a lot of money to some people. Especially people who work hard for a living. Talk to him about how it made you feel and see where he is coming from.
2006-12-21 17:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your boyfriend..firstly u should not be thinkin about money in a relationship all the time. Im sure he's sorry he can't give u the money and im sure he probably lookin for another job.Unlikeu who is jus sittin there hopin someone wud give u money and if they dont u jus think about cuttin all ties with them. That s not right ...true love has no value, no price tag on it. If that is what love is to you then you should go and have a relationship with an ATM machine or bank. GO and find an extra job and in the meantime help ur man find one too!!!
2006-12-20 21:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by babyj8706 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he ur only boyfriend? special one?since he's unemployed now,how can u asking his help to settle $585?it's unfair.4 the time being,u've to try to find job urself or refinance ur car again.if ur boyfriend is still okay ,i think he w'd help u as soon as he got the job.plz give him time n chance!
best wishes.
2006-12-20 21:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? Your boy friend really might not have the money. I can see that your love runs deep. Lucky Guy ( hope you catch onto the sarcasm).
2006-12-20 21:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by The Pope 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you find it necessary. Although it would be a stereotypically shallow move, it does seem to be the way the world works. Do what feels best for you.
2006-12-20 21:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Answerer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to believe that you asked this question because people, generally and morally, know that they love one another for who they are and what they are, not because they have $$!
2006-12-20 21:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by azngurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋