and will still need bridesmaids or a flower girl?
2006-12-20 13:03:35 · 30 answers · asked by riotgerrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't need a man, I'm atracted to females not males. i hate men they cheat too much. I was born this way. It's not something you stop. If some of you don't like it, don't answer this question there is nothing wrong with it and it shouldn't be illegal at all, it's our lives who we marry is our business, and not yurs, but some of you who arn't against it thanx. Plus i just want to know yes or not don't explain if your going to be rude. If you are going to be nice about this then explain. Thank you.
2006-12-20 14:25:41 · update #1
well to some of you men who are homophobic shut up and get a life. the one person who said i pretend to be a lesbian, ok well dude i was born that way didn't you read the details i can tell who ever i want i'm a lesbian this is my question not yours you can answer it but don't be rude, i'm not being rude, i'm defending myself and if you don't like it go answer some one els's question, thank you. plus iiii donnn't likkke mennn.
2006-12-21 01:36:03 · update #2
also to you little girls who don't like it get a reality check, this is life, to some of you it's not normal but to some it is so shut your little mouth before i report how your being. when people ask question they expect you to be nice and nice mean, if you did't read the warning for on here your not allowed to be rude and nasty.
2006-12-21 01:39:33 · update #3
You can use whatever traditions you want. I think bouquets are great but you could just go for flowers as decorations. Usually you have your friends as the bridemaids and someone little you know as the flower girl, so what ever works for you. Have a great day.
2006-12-20 13:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by swelljosie 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I really think it's up to you as a couple. A friend of mine is getting married (to another lady) and they chose to both walk down the aisle separately, each wearing a dress and carrying a bouquet. However, if that isn't your style, one of you could be waiting at the end of the aisle, while the other walks w/ the bouquet. Neither of you HAVE to carry flowers though, but do it if you like that tradition. Same goes for bridesmaids/flower girl. Do it if you want to, but it's not a necessity for a wedding, be it straight/gay. Congrats!
2006-12-20 23:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by MelB 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a large wedding, then you can have the flower girl, ring bearer and so forth. The bouquet issue should really be decided by you and your partner.It would look georgeous in the pictures if one you has a bouquet.
II feel that I need to say this so please do not be offended.I know that some people give others a hard time for who they love but i feel that its your choice. I go to church and I know what the bible says and maybe I should try and show you that originally this is not what was planned.But I also believe that god gave us free will for us to choose what we want. Whether or not its right, only god is allowed to judge us.
2006-12-21 08:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are getting married in a civil union, then you'll probably only ned witnesses...bridesmaids and flower girls aren't even required for church weddings, only 2 witnesses over 18 (which are usually the best man and the maid of honor).
2006-12-20 21:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there aren't any "rules" for a wedding like these because there haven't happened often enough. For a traditional wedding - all those things are optional, and so for your wedding I would think I would be the same. For a traditional wedding - the only thing needed is two witnesses and a officiant. EVERYTHING else is optional and only required IF you want it:)
2006-12-20 22:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chrys 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It think this is completely up to you. You aren't following the 'norm' kind of life, so why follow the 'norm' kind of wedding. I think whatever you feel comfortable with and want would be fine. You can both have bridesmaids if you want. Are you both wearing a dress?
2006-12-20 21:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by dana j 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....put it this way. What you are doing is new to a lot of people and exciting for you. Maybe its time to bring out the pioneering spirit. Try something new and different and dont conforme to the traditional wedding rites. Who know's you may be a guiding light and others may follow your new ideas.
2006-12-20 21:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Stalag 2 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you just do whatever you want- it's your wedding! If you both want to have flowers, then thats fine, also, yeah, if you want bridesmaids and a flower girl, then go for it!
I wish you all the best for your wedding!
2006-12-20 22:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by jane p 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You can have whatever you like for your commitment ceremony. If you want a bouquet, have one! You and your partner should discuss how you want the ceremony to be, with all the traditional trimmings or with something totally far-out or something in-between.
2006-12-20 23:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Inquiring Mind 19 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a bouquet, bridemaids or a flower girl. Make the wedding yours and uphold the traditions that you like.
2006-12-20 21:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by bluechick 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
As with any weddings, it's not a question of "need" but of desire. If you want a bouquet, then you should have one. If you don't, then don't. Same for your own bridesmaids or flower girl. I think that you should have standing up with you anyone who you feel you want to bestow that honor upon. Good luck and congratulations!
2006-12-20 21:13:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋