Here is my problem: I am 40 and she is 20. We have gone out to dinner 4 or 5 times this month. She has spent the night several times, simply plutonic too, but she usually curls up next to me throughout the night. She calls me every night before she goes to bed usually 10:30pm and calls me again when she wakes up usually 4:30am. We have never kissed or done anything sexually. What is your out take on this? Am I not seeing a sign?
2006-12-20 12:41:00 · 15 answers · asked by droopydog88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have only been seeing each other for a few weeks now.
2006-12-20 12:54:39 · update #1
I would kiss her, but the first time don't let that lead to sex. She is totally into you, but you can tell she doesn't want to rush. And with her being so young she probably wants to take it slow. But hey what you are doing is working just go slow, she will let you know if she wants more. But you have got to make the first move, she might be too shy.
2006-12-20 12:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's 20 and you're 40, there's a problem. She's probably young and hot and is looking for an oppurtunity. the best thing to do is wait a little while, sees if anything like kissing happens, and if not, take a break for a while. Good luck! =)
2006-12-20 20:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by lizgurrl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned you both went out 4/5 times this month ..Is this a new relationship ? or have you been seeing each other for a while ?
2006-12-20 20:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably isnt really ready for any "stuff" yet but she is afraid 2 tell u.. Take it easy.. Mayb she is stil getting use 2 it.. If not she probably doesnt hve the feel 4 u but she cant like speak up
2006-12-20 20:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by iluvpoohbear_winni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break down and ask. Sounds like the description is more of a friends thing. That couldn't hurt. She is awfully young to be seeking a relationship right now.
2006-12-20 20:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 40 and she's 20...(shrug) Good luck to ya. But at 40, shouldn't you be strong enough mentally to at least ask, straight out and honestly, what she's thinking?
If you're scared she's going to say "nothing, we're just friends", and you want more..at least you'll know where you stand.
If you just want to remain friends and SHE wants more, well, again, now you know what you're faced with.
2006-12-20 20:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by badaz06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs a friend to lean on or she is just taking things alittle slow. give it alittle more time and if nothing happens ask her what she wants out of this so neither of you get hurt in the long run.
2006-12-20 20:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by me_myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure since I'm not in that stage of life.. But it sounds like she just wants to take things slowly, or she's not ready for that kind of commitment and just wants to be friends...
Karina
2006-12-20 20:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is into you. You need to try and kiss her and find out for sure. I think she wants you to make a move.
2006-12-20 20:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm.........
maybe she liks u but she is waiting 4 u to make a move im not sure i dont want 2 tell u the rong thang so i woulndnt take my answer
2006-12-20 20:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by adorable_cowgirl_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋