i have a problem when i have sex with him i don`t feel anything so that`s why i push him in bed.and he thinks i am not interesting in bed.i am in usa now and he is in london.and it`s killing me i will be back in two weeks and i don`t know what to do when i came back.i love him so much i don`t want to lose him.please help
2006-12-20 12:25:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is pretty much without tact and sensitivity but loaded with greed. What he needs to realize is that it's not about him getting off but mutual enjoyment. If momma isn't happy, nobody should be happy. Your problem is that you also think it's your problem. If he can't get you turned on, he doesn't deserve sex with you. If you get turned on you'll have fun and the problem will be solved. It's not rocket science.
2006-12-20 12:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boyyy! ahh i would try asking him if he wants to do role play.. ahh when you get him and your ready for sex, start kissing his neck with a little bite every now and then, suck on his earlobe and make very quiet moans in his ear like you want him.. i'm sure by then he will be making his moves on you.. start by undoing his pants and then leave that area and start taking his shirt off, if he hasn't even tried removing your clothes, do it yourself.. then take his pants down and rub his friend and grab his balls.. push him down on whatever is around and suck on his friend for a few minutes, then tell him you want to feel him deep inside you.. and while you guys are going at it, ask him to do it in different positions (they love the switch up).. and when he has you bent over be a little loud, let him know you want it deeper and harder.. and then it will be over with...=) i dont' know if this is the type of thing he's looking for, but all the ones i have been with like it alot! =) good luck and best wishes! p.s just be sure you tell him what you want and how you want it, or you'll never be happy with sex! hope you have a merry christmas and a very happy new year! oh and when your on the phone with him and he askes what your doin' tell him your touching her(vagina) because she misses him(his penis).. and see if maybe you can get a little phone sex going on, even if you don't really touch your self.. watch a porno and learn some of the sentences they use! good luck!
2006-12-20 20:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest yougive each other lessons. You can guide each other's hands around.
2006-12-20 20:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋