ive been wit my gf for a year...but there is this girl that i think is really cool and sexy... she is in my mind all the time....wut does this mean?
2006-12-20 11:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can tell you are still young. Be honest with the person you are with - but be gentle with her. I know kids go through this; it's only natural. You are not mature yet.
2006-12-20 12:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'd love to know from you how you feel about your girlfriend? But since I cant get an answer for that, I'd have to say there is nothing wrong with looking or even thinking about. In your case your thinking about this other girl all the time. So where does that leave your girlfriend in your thoughts?
This means that you may want to take a break from the dating world before you really hurt someone such as your girlfriend. I hate to even say that, but it's the truth.
You wouldn't want those thoughts to turn into actions one night while your with a girlfriend you must care about to have been with for one year.
However on the other hand I'd suggest to you also that if you really love this girlfriend of yours ask yourself is there something missing in that relationship for your mind to be off on another? Other than "you think this other girl is cool & sexy"
Also ask yourself what does this other girl have to offer you in a relationship besides her looks? Hun, looks will only get you so far and then it's brain time.. Does she have any brains to go with those looks?
Don't short change yourself because of these things and lose a girlfriend that's been with you for 1 year.
Good luck
2006-12-20 12:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bored in your relationship. You need to spice things up or move on. It is fine to think other girls are attractive and normal everyone does that at some point or another. Whether you act upon those feelings are what can turn into a disaster. You need to ask yourself is she worth leaving a girl you have a past with and someone you picture yourself with. Are you gonna be jealous because of how she looks when other people feel the same way about her like you do now? If so then don't do it! It won't be worth it for you in the long run...
2006-12-20 12:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh toughy. if you really dont like ur current gf then you need to find out if she is still completely in luv with you. if she is then its gonna be a rough break-up, especially since theres a new girl. and find out if the new girl feels the same bout you. then just sort out your mind and ask yourself if you wud rather go thru a horrible break-up and break a girls heart, just to be with a sexy girl oooorrrr stay with ur current gf and just live with the fact you like another girl!
2006-12-20 12:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by sexyg0pher770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you need to break up with your gf because you don't have the same feeling for her that you did before. But only if the girl you like is all over you too.
2006-12-20 12:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all it might just be lust. You need to ask yourself if you really love your girlfriend. If your answer is yes, stop thinking about this other girl and focus on your relationship.
Best Of Luck to you!!!
2006-12-20 12:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Supa_Sexy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you should not have a girl friend at all, you should be signle and dating a few women, that way there is no worring about hurting someones feelings later!!
2006-12-20 12:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that u don't like ur girlfriend anymore not to mension love, don't even try to think about her ok just stay with ur GF and have some time with her.
Good luck and don't betrate her!!!
2006-12-20 12:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you leave the gf and go for the on of your dreams and see were that goes and the whole thing about her in your mind that must mean some thing right
2006-12-20 12:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that it means u need 2 let ur gf go and go 4 the girl that interets u the most
2006-12-20 12:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by htown_thickness 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋