i like this guy and weve been hanging out for a little bit now. he comes and visits me, and we go to track together, and i thought he liked me,but im not really sure. his friend found out that i liked the guy, and im pretty sure he told him, because we havent spoken since, and hes been like avoiding me. what should i do?
2006-12-20 11:58:39 · 19 answers · asked by pshhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing a game.... So you can play also... He knows you are bugged because he has stopped talking to you and now avoiding you since someone told him you liked him. He is aware that you are wondering what is going on? He likes that he can be aloof and know deep down inside you are watching him and being bugged about it... So play the game also.. Do a reverse of what he expects. Start ignoring him. If you see him coming go the other direction.. Don't go anywhere he would expect for you to go... If he is in the room then walk out the other side. Try that for a few days and I promise you he will come to you... Let me know how it goes. Also it is so important that you tell NO ONE. Not even your best friends... because if you do then they will tell and it will ruin it...
2006-12-20 12:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention age, so I'm just guessing here. The guy may be nervous about this, and he doesn't want to blow it by saying the wrong thing. It's easy to be around a girl when a guy thinks she's not interested, but once she's interested some guys find it hard to transition into the stage of getting together with the girl. Ever thought of asking him out. It's a tough call, but it may be worth it. Don't make it too stressful for him, do something like telling him about a movie that you are going to see and tell him (don't ask, say "I'm going to see [movie] on [day], won't you come out and see it, it should be [good, great, cool]") and don't take no for an answer. Get him away from people and feel it out, read the body language and see how he's acting around you.
2006-12-20 12:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and say hey if you don't feel the same that is cool I would still like to be friends cause I like to hang with you and my feelings won't get in the way of this but I would rather have you to talk to then not anything at all.
2006-12-20 12:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my female pal because of the fact she became my superb pal! She understood and liked my humorousness, my features besides as my faults. My advice is to be your self. do no longer substitute who you're for a dating. faster or later you will locate somebody who loves you for the reason which you're shy and quiet. Getting lots of interest isn't a sturdy element. Be friendly, be open minded and style, and the main surprising guy will come alongside.
2016-12-11 13:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by mcdonnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him, and ask him why its been so long since you both talked. act as if you dont like him. but dont be fake. if he heard a rumor im sure he'll tell you. just make sure the two of you are cool, act clueless to the fact that his friend told him you liked him.
2006-12-20 12:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this guy is shy, or maybe his friend neva said anything either way u have to play it off like he never knew, be his friend and once in a while do a lil flirting, every girl has a flirt side to them, bring yours out, call him to hang out like any regular old day, and play it off
2006-12-20 12:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could look for an extra time where both of you can talk bout your feelings and not hurt each other. Tell him bout yours and maybe he may end up telling you that he also likes you. Go on now...
2006-12-20 12:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by anaid97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if his friend told him? Just go up to him and play around ( like nothing happened)...
Guys are always playing these stupid games, because they are stupid !!!
2006-12-20 12:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let be honest here not trying to be an *** but if he is wiling to go that further step for you and tell u how he feels good for and if not well its his lose I'm sure so just let it be and you be the one that makes the decision not him
2006-12-20 12:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait forever until u loose him, go to him and admit it, see why he doesnt want u or if he does, find it out or ask his friend but fot the love of god dont stay and do nothing!
2006-12-20 12:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by katykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋