my boyfriend has given me no reason not to trust him. But i always think he's cheating on me with his ex. And we both hate eachother very much. Plus he'll say she calls him but he actually called her. That has only happened once but i'm not sure what to think of it. Is there anyway to stop thinking about it so much? or what should i do?
2006-12-20 11:52:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down and deal with it maturely. If you are serious about him and you have made a commitment to date only each other, and you're hoping it will lead to marriage, you need to tell him honestly what behavior bothers you. If he truly cares about you he will bend over backwards to make sure he puts your needs above his own. That is true love. Without it you're just setting yourself up for another dysfunctional relationship.
2006-12-20 11:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by it's me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your b/f hasn't given you reason not to trust him but then you say he called the ex and put it off on her that she called him, when he was being dishonest to you, and that is reason not to trust him. If he knows how you feel about the ex then he should keep his distance from her if he cares about you.
2006-12-20 19:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust this guy. You always think he is cheating on you and you found out that he calls his ex. So don't tell us that you trust this pig because clearly you don't.
2006-12-20 19:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though your b/f ex and you are more like rivals,more than hating each other,based on jealousy....Its because he is causing you to be jealous by calling her...Your boyfriend lied to you,and thats his fault not hers....I think you need to stop hating your boyfriends ex and start asking him whats his deal,if he,s going to call her and lie about it you don,t need him in your life...Your boyfriends holds the key to yours and his relationship ,not his ex.....
2006-12-20 20:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! You can be sure if it happened once it happen more than that. Your boyfriend is cheating on you and you should kick him to the curb.
2006-12-20 19:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel with out letting him assum that u dont trust him, his ex is jus a hater shes madd cuz u got him now, and if u let her get to u than ur giving her wat she wants, look at it this way your tha one that has him now, wat does she have, make sure u give ur Bf a good reason why ur the best choice 4 him, PUT IT ON HIM so he wont going no where else.
2006-12-20 19:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into a catfight with the ex in front of your b/f. Then have hot threeway s/ex. You can share him with the ex. Problem solved!
2006-12-20 19:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with your instinks, if you think he is cheating he most likely is, that plus he lied about who called who, and if she is his ex why the phone calls at all? dump him your only going to get hurt!!
2006-12-20 20:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boy friend about it... if your going to have any kind of a good realationship you have to be open and the only person that can really make you not think about it so much is him...
2006-12-20 19:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, all u have to do is to convinced your bf to tell u da truth n if he likes u very much as gf,he willl tell u everything.i think dis will help.MERRY CHRISTMAS N A HAPPY NEW YEAR.
2006-12-20 20:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by diana b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋