I'll keep this as short as possible: love my gf dearly and know she loves me but she can't always show it. asked her about it, we talked; occurs to me (w/out her going into detail b/c she just freezes) she has unresolved issues (given to her from what I can tell) that are pretty big. She knows she needs to change: I have seen her attempts; she is so strong and strong willed that she tries to do it by herslef but I now realize she can't do it alone and probably needs pro help. I want to be there for her and I try to be. I seriously know I can't do it for her, just want her to know I am willing to travel this road w/ her to the end. So what do I tell her? Anything? Lead by example? This is extra tough for 2 reasons: first, no one I know has any practical experience to advise from, and second, whatever it is keeps the relationship from getting serious. It's like she wants it to be but this...whatever!, keeps getting in the way. Argh!!!
2006-12-20
11:52:18
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randyken
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