She told me there is a guy asking her for sex last week she said she refused. Is it possible for a women to contain her passion for sex for such a long time. If that guy aproach again will she take him?
2006-12-20 11:49:13 · 22 answers · asked by leon G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes we love each other, dated 5 years before married and my eldest kid is now 7 years. Thaks for all kind words, as majority says she would be sincere a great relief for me. I too don't cheat her though there are plenty of oportunities ahead
2006-12-20 12:09:22 · update #1
she seems to be in LOVE with you and sincere to you. You should go home this holidays and hit & warn that guy. Women can control their passion if those guy do not harase. you are lucky your wife is nice
2006-12-20 11:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. You've been around her long enough to know how easy she is (meaning how easy for you to get her in the sack). If she has a strong sexual craving then there is always the possibility that she may cheat, but by telling you about the guy means that she's looking for some signs from you about how you felt about this. Make it clear that you don't appreciate this at all, and be firm but not angry with her, be angry at the guy doing the asking. Of course people can be tempted, but then in certain environments people like to make it seem that an unattended woman will drop her pants for anyone who asks. Most of the time they are wrong. If that's any consolation.
2006-12-20 11:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! If your wife truly loves you, it does not matter how long you are away for...2 days, 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years. When people love each other, they simply don't consider sex with anyone else. Now, for the question as to whether or not a woman can control her passion for sex....I suppose some can and some can't. But no matter how long it's been or how ho**y she is, if she loves you, she'll wait.
2006-12-20 11:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it posible for a man to do the same? Yes it is posible, especially if they are committed. My mother was married to my father for 42 years, and at the beginning of their marriage he was in Vietnam for 2 terms. For the last 9 years of their marriage he had alzeihmer's diesease. He passed away 3 months ago, and never once was my mother unfaithful to him.
My fiancee and I live over 5 hours apart, we see each other generally about once a month. Neither of us has ever cheated on the other.
Since you have been away for two months, obviously you miss each other but you can definitely obstain from having sex.
2006-12-20 11:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person, every situation is different. This is a serious test of your marriage. Treat it as such. How strongly does she love you? How strongly do you love her? Is your absence necessary, and if so, are you doing whatever you can to insure that she feels loved in the meantime? Suspicion doesn't help your marriage. Doing everything you can to insure that she feels loved, and being by her side ASAP will help your marriage. In the end, if your relationship gets through this test, your love will be stronger than ever. Best wishes.
2006-12-20 12:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she was cheating on you, I don't think she would tell you about it. If you're REALLY concerned, and have close friends in the neighborhood, you can ask them to keep an eye on things for you. Keep in touch with her. Why don't you ask her how she's dealing with the horniness? Maybe she masturbates or something. Like that song "I Touch Myself" (which is a good song by the way) goes:
I don't want anybody else
When I think about you
I touch myself
I don't want anybody else
Oh no, oh no, oh no
At least, I hope she feels that way about you. Good night!
2006-12-20 11:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all 2 months is not that long to go without. If you are worried that she won't be faithful to you for that short of time span then what does that say about your marriage. Why is she even telling you that this other guy approached her in that way, is she trying to tell you something, maybe wants you to be jelous. Your wife can find other means to satisfy herself sexually rather then being with another man.
2006-12-20 11:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. I was away from 2 women for an extended period in my life. One cheated constantly. The other I know hasn't. I don't know man. Good luck with it. try not to make yourself too crazy over it. Easier said than done though.
2006-12-20 11:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends of the individual...I don't understand why she would tell you something like that though. It probably made her feel good that people still find her attractive but who knows she could be waiting for you...I would talk to her and let her know your concerns about the issue and see what she has to say.
2006-12-20 11:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible for someone to contain their passion for even longer, she is telling you about this guy because she wants you to come home and release all that stored up passion.
2006-12-20 11:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋