Ok, there's this older, hot guy that I know... He's a total horndog, talks about sex constantly... I used to try to stay out of the conversations that he'd be having about it, but I started to feel left out, and lately, I've been jumping right in. And he has been SHOCKED...
He used to think that I was just this timid, sweet, inexperienced, little angel, and now, he thinks I'm just as dirty as the rest of the girls he talks too...
Would he have appreciated me more if I stayed a good girl in his eyes?
Does he disrespect me now, or am I more sexy to him?
He acts like he has sex on the brain 24/7, but I think that's partly because he's scared of getting into another relationship, and getting hurt again...
I actually am a total virgin, but I'm pretty sure that he thinks I'm not, now...
I would have loved to date him, but I would settle for a hook-up, now. I know in my heart that a relationship would never work between us, because of his personality and the whole age difference
2006-12-20 11:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it takes a good girl to change somebody it happen to me.
2006-12-20 11:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by peter1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a simular situation its so funny...
I had this friend for a long while and when we first meet he told me of his swinger lifestyle( having orgies, and threesomes) and love of women (living in Las Vegas this is common) I loved talking to him and hanging out with him because I could talk to him about any and everything evn other guys, which was great cause he'd give me the guys point of view.
Well one night we went to the drive in and I must say i was courious if he could live up to his own reputation he even has a tatoo that says "LUVEATNU" well he did I never experienced anything like it. He is also 10 years older than I (42). I admitt I put him in the "JUST FRIEND" catergory at first because of his lifestyle & he wasnt my typical type(Tall,Slim& dark ) and in fact he was the total oppisite (Short, round and lightskined). But he is the best lover I have ever had in my life and you know what happen when you contiuously have sex with someone emotions get all envovled.
Well to make a very long story shorter and to somewhat answer your question weve been together 6 months and although we have keep our relationship open (to where we can see other people) neither one of us have he still flirts and we even went to a swinger club together but only slept with each other. I had the oppertunity to screw another old lover and I turned his offer down because I found I really like my guy and yesterday he confided in me that he loved me and no longer wanted to have a open relationship, over the thanksgiving holidays we meet each others parents and he asked me to move in with him next year.
We have taken day by day and each day that goes by our relationship grows and we learn each other and learn to love eachother more and more. Id consider myself to be a good girl too, and I didnt demand that he change he did it because he wanted to. So yeah I think a horndog could appreciate a good woman...he may even want to settle down and marry her one day.
The good thing is that you know what your getting into so if you can handle it Id say go for it!
2006-12-20 20:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't accociate with this guy. This is called "lowering your standards."
You have done such a fine job of making sure you are far unlike the skanky females he uses. Why would you want to lower yourself to that?
I'm pretty sure his view of you has changed. You should set him straight and let him know how you REALLY are. He might not be mature enough to handle a real lady rght now, but in the future when he's sick of being with the same kind of girl (which those type are a dime a dozen) hes going to want a girl like you, for a REAL relationship and not something to stick it into.
Don't waste your time with this guy, even if he is "hott". You will regret it in the future. Have some self respect.
2006-12-20 19:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A horndog doesn't appreciate any kind of woman. The jury is out on whether or not they appreciate their mother. Don't settle for diddly squat! Heartbreak would around the corner.
2006-12-20 19:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by BonnieBlackLass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me make sure i got this right' You are thinking of giving your virginity to this horn dog loser. Good lord girl don't make that mistake. Seems to me you would want to give that to someone that would appreciate it. Give it to a good decent guy that will not kick you out of the bed the next morning and treat you like you don't exist when they see you on the street. I don't know the guy' The way you explain him he sounds like he would be that type. You said it yourself that it would never work out. Don't waist your time.
2006-12-20 20:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd be willing to hook up with you (hell, he probably really wants you now, since he now thinks that your a total sexpot who's just been keeping her dirty side undercover!)
So, if you just want a quick "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" sex episode, by all means go for it. But don't expect him to make you his girlfriend, cause that's not gonna happen.
2006-12-20 19:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want this loser to be your first. If all he talks about is sex, what are you going to do when the sex gets old? Honey, don't worry about him and do what you feel in your gut is right.
2006-12-20 19:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do him what do you have to lose. Besides if all he talks about is sex with a woman he has no class.
2006-12-20 19:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him be your first...you'll regret it, and if you keep leading him on, things are likely to get out of control and you'll end up doing things you really don't want to do. You're a smart girl, wait for someone who will appreciate you for who you are.
2006-12-20 19:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by juliana f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I,M NOT A HORNDOG I LIKE A GOOD WELL MANNERED WOMAN --LOOKING FOR A DATE??
2006-12-20 19:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋