why is that when you have a crush on someone you feel so much affection for them? and then when you go out with them you dont feel that spark anymore?? ((well at least this happens to me))
2006-12-20 11:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably because when you're crushing on them, you want them so much. but once you have them, your goal is already reached, so yeah. it's kinda like you want a christmas present so bad, but once you get it, you don't feel that anymore.
2006-12-20 11:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by chunsagirl77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the thrill of the chase. It's wanting what you can't have that makes the spark. If you already got the guy, then there's no chase or challenge.
2006-12-20 19:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cause he doesn't act his natural when ur not dating and then when ur dating he is real natural and u like him because of this and that and u will be like oh he really doesn't like this? Well u lose a heart and then oh u have a cell oh u lost a heart for him.
2006-12-20 19:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you don't know what is going to happen and you think it is going to be something big but, it really isn't
2006-12-20 20:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Doug P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont know. thats a realy good question. i think it may be because, we dont have to worry about being commited and we can be obsessed and flirty and i think thats why.
2006-12-20 19:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcs u expect something. but reality is something different.
2006-12-20 19:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by DB9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ready yet.
2006-12-20 21:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋