wat do my inlaws want from him?

Question

by in laws i mean his sisters 2. theres the deal my mother in law doesn't Really like me that much and the reason why is because i married her pride and joy of a son even though she has 5 kids including a 10 yr old son. last year she give me a toliet sit cover and 2 towels has a gift i said thank you, she could of just not giving me any thing in the 1st. place right so i let it go. Now this year has been great for my husband and our kids we had a reaallly great year but the thing is that every thing she would find out of some we did she would get mad that we spent our money and his sisters would call him up and tell him why they weren't invated. making him feel guilt that we had gone in the 1st place. So then we began to invate them but they would never show up. As the yr kept on his mom and sisters lacked on telling us about fishing trips, fam. bbq's and now his lil sisters 5 b day party just this sunday they never called me or him to tell us anything and now his fam. is mad @ him

Answer 1

Write them off for a while. They already made up their minds about you.

Answer 2

let's say i know how you feel. they are mad that you are having such a gooood year. For some reason they've decided to seclude you this year and then get mad at you for not reading their minds. The grapvine news must not be working as well as they think evidentally. I would make sure you invite them formally with written invites and oral, phone calls in person etc. make it so its planned ahead like a month or so adavance so they can't say they didn't know it'll be they simply forgot or didn't want to show up as they are trying to make a drama out of the situation. Now hubby and i hardly ever go to his families functions as when we are there we are ignored or made fun of.. pointless really. We invite them here and they don't show but lecture us about not coming to their house all the time.