how do you stop my older sister from telling i cant do things and she says she is better than any thing i say i can do. that is why i started horse riding lessons.
2006-12-20 11:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by Marguerite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
simply put - actions speak louder than words. don't bother telling her what you are doing and doing well - she will see that for herself - and by not telling her or sharing those achievements with her, she will realize it's best to put up or shut up!!
2006-12-20 11:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My big sister is the same way and she rilly get me upset too!! Try find something u can do much better then she can and that way she cant say all time shes better at you at everything. I play cello and i have other things she cant do but she still pick on me. Oh well. Good luck and bless u OK??
Horse riding lessons must be so fun!! U ar lucky girl!! Have fun K??
2006-12-20 14:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this always end with arugments? If so I would just say maybe you are and walk away. If we have know one to argue with what is the sense. I know you will feel like you are the loser but really, look at it this way you had the last word. She will be stumbling in shock.
2006-12-20 12:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wagz7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing that u should know is that ur sister isnt any beter than u. And u can do ANYTHING she can do u just got to work 4 it. But u shouldnt have a competitive spirit with ur sister because blood is thicker than water so please take my words into consideration. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-20 11:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always act better than u until she GROWS up!!! Then she will treat u with respect. Get her a book from the library on how to tret people nicely and give it to her.
2006-12-20 11:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and do your own thing. constantly comparing yourself to her is only going to make you think that you have to be a copy of her. you are you and she is her. What she likes you might not. Let her know that you think that you are the best person and stay firm about it.
2006-12-20 11:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK is she good at horseback riding?If not then that is one thing u can laugh at her about.Good luck.and happy holidays!
2006-12-20 11:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ luving animals ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep practicing and outdo her.
2006-12-20 11:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋