Everytime I think i like someone, i always think ahead. Like, i think about what's going to happen, what's going to be bad if we do go out.
It used to hurt so bad because i couldn't see that one person for a day, and it used to hurt because i wanted it so bad, but i couldn't have it. Love.. i though i was in love. and it hurt so bad.
but with him.. i just feel like smiling all the time. i feel like everything is so right when everything is so wrong. and i feel like i can wait. i feel like... i can wait for him because i know he'll always be there. and when he is there, i live for his smiles.
i learned to live for the moments.
but is this right? is this love? they say love hurts.. but i have known him for a year now, and seen every bad part about him, and i still like him. i want to be the shoulder where he can lean on.. he just makes me smile.
isn't love supposed to hurt? it's not supposed to feel this good.. isn't it?
2006-12-20 11:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you're feeling now is why we put up with love when it hurts. You've seen some of why it hurts -- when you can't be together, when they do something that hurts you, when something happens to keep you apart.
But YES, love is supposed to feel this good. YES, love makes you feel like this is what your life is all about. YES, love makes you feel like you'll always be there for each other.
And... everybody'll tell you that this goes away, that eventually you don't feel this way about each other, that the thrills and the feeling like everything is so right and the excitement will all fade and you'll feel like the person you're with is just ordinary.
And when people say that, I feel so sad for them. Because I *still* get as nervous as a schoolboy when I get to the restaurant before my wife and I pace up and down watching the street while I wait for her to drive up. I *still* have trouble falling asleep if I wake up in the middle of the night, because I'm simply too thrilled that she's there, her warm fragrant rose-petal skin stretched out beside me in the darkness. This New Year's Eve will be the thirtieth anniversary of the first time I kissed her. That night I felt clearly and with all my physical senses as though my body had opened up and my soul poured out through our lips, mixing and mingling with hers like two liquids poured into the same bottle -- you could never separate them again. It took most of the next year for us to finally be a couple, and a year and a half after that to get married, but it's still like that now.
So... Yeah. That's what love is like. And it's why we put up with it when it's bad, because when it's good... it makes everything else in life worth the trouble.
2006-12-20 11:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love only hurts if the relationship goes to sorrow. When you love someone and receive love from someone, you care and share and that particular person gives you an loving attention. You are worried particularly because your friends have failed in their love affairs. Don't worry, whether the love will be everlasting or not relies on your hand and your partners hand.
Come on girl, everything which we get into in a beginning is challenging. All of the best, go ahead with the new challenge of your life.
2006-12-20 11:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love makes u happy and also hurts.
2006-12-20 11:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by LiL PumPkiN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in LOVE an you have met Mr. Right isn't it great what you are feeling is happiness and contentment.
2006-12-20 11:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In LOVE, always expect the best and the worst
2006-12-20 11:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love gives us the natural high........
2006-12-20 11:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋