i have known this guy for about one month and we both love each other alot...we talk on the phone everysay for hours and when it;s time to go we always said our "i love you"s....and we would always be seen at school hugging, kissing, and holding hands... and everyone at our school thought that we are a couple...but we were never together(but we planned on it to happen)...soon my brother (older than me by 2 years and younger than the guy that i love by 2 years) told my parents alot of negative information that is not even true any more...and my parents told me that they don't even want me to talk to him or even see me near him ever again....i don't know what to do now?and how i should deal with this
2006-12-20 11:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my brother told my parents that be beats woman when he is drunk...and that he soes drugs and sells it....but all of that was in his past, the wort thing os all he told them was that he likes to have sex....(only the sex thing is true...other than that everything is not true anymore)
2006-12-21 07:04:37 · update #1
Respect your parents, they are the ones who are going to be there until the end, the ones who will be helping you enter adulthood. This guy could bolt at any minute, your parents are usually the only people who really have your best interest at heart, even if you don't like it.
2006-12-20 11:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by mamadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Not even true any more"? So, it was true at one time. This guy is 4 years older than you, and you are in the same school? You are still living with your parents, but planned on being "together" with this guy. You have not even been together one month.
Cool it down with this guy. If he truly loves you, he will want you to finish school, and keep your relationship with your family intact. Your best solution would be to adopt a more formal relationship with your bf. Love takes time, and mutual hardships to grow. Lust happens quickly and fades quickly. Take a short timeout, stay away from each other over the Christmas break(no phone). See if you still feel the same way about each other.
2006-12-20 11:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you left out what your brother told your parents. So we can't say if your parents are right or not. The way you worded it, "alot of negative information that is not even true "anymore". Does that mean what your brother told your parents was true at one point and time? I can't answer how you should deal w/this. Add more information to your question.
2006-12-20 11:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, sweety. properly before everything, you're able to easily communicate with him. Make him hear. i comprehend you stated which you tried, yet be slightly forceful. do not yell at him, yet make him hear. probably do not ask him first component while he gets homestead, because of the fact he's understandably drained, yet discover it sluggish while he's around and you will have a marvelous long communicate. i will comprehend the way he does not have lots time and ability to spare, nevertheless. he's working long hours and 2 jobs, and everyone who does which would be emotionally drained. in simple terms enable him comprehend which you're there for him, and take a glance at to be accomodating of him. seek advice from him approximately HIM, not virtually you. in keeping with danger you're able to get a edge job, as properly college? You do sound slightly clingy and needy of him, so in keeping with danger in simple terms relax and don't remember on him lots. in keeping with danger connect a wellness midsection, or a club, so which you're able to make some pals and function some thing to do and somebody to speak to and think of roughly as properly in simple terms him. He has his very own life, so which you're able to have yours too! properly, with the parent concern, call your mothers and fathers up right this moment and tell them you're with him. They need to comprehend, or maybe nevertheless they won't approve, you like him and it is your life and that they can't end that. and you extra suitable bypass meet his mothers and fathers, or they gained't take you 2 as a intense couple. And as for the affliction, please, please, PLEASE do not bypass into that state if this does not paintings out. it would experience like your international got here crashing down, yet there are different fish interior the sea. even though happens, happens for a reason. God constantly has a greater, extra suitable plan for you. And honey, he DOES love you. He does not instruct that he loves you, and he unquestionably does not instruct his appreciation for you, yet deep down, comprehend it extremely is there. Any guy that continues to be with the comparable woman for 5 years is a stable guy, and you 2 deserve one yet another. My suitable needs, and that i'm hoping each little thing works out for you. :]
2016-12-30 17:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one idea is to send notes cause thats not talking to him. But you shouldnt let your parents get in the way of your true love. I would talk to them and say that you really like him and see what they say.
2006-12-20 11:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should listen to you're parents because they know the guy is to muck older than you and you should not be messing with him. get over it and dump the guy before you get onto trouble that will be with you for the rest of your life.
2006-12-20 11:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your parents everything. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-20 11:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your parents and talk to him anyways
2006-12-20 11:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them the truth, and I hope everything goes well. =D
2006-12-20 11:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Zacky Vengeance est.6661 :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and grow up.
2006-12-20 11:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋