i like this girl , i thought i was liike the only one. I asked her out she said no, but i was still ok, but know i realzied there are lots of other guys who like her to.. and they are more popluare and better. so what should i do....give up?
2006-12-20 11:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Boss 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I know everyone says this and it doesn't seem to make sense when you can't find someone. But the idea is that you will get shot down about 9 out of 10 times when you ask girls out. Get used to it, it's our place in the world to get shot down, it's all about rolling with the punches and getting back in the game. Don't sweat it, but you can always been nice and be there for them so that you can catch them on the rebound.
2006-12-20 11:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, being "popular" doesn't make them "better." You need to have a little more confidence in yourself.
You asked her out, she turned you down, and that's all that matters - these other guys don't count. It's not "giving up," it's "moving on." Find some other girls to be interested in. Keep asking girls out and eventually one will say yes.
2006-12-20 19:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just hanging out and being her friend. Get to know her, let her get to know you, have fun and be paitent. It might not hurt to look around and see if there's another girl you like. Try not to be real pushy, or clingy, or anything of the sort with the girl you like.
2006-12-20 19:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question to ask yourself is can she suck a golf ball thru a 50 foot length of garden hose? If she can, then by all means don't give up and keep asking her out.
2006-12-20 19:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by TIM J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say move on .. its her loss not yours once she realizes her mistake Im sure you will be with the better choice.
If she is into popularity more that you then to hell with her ;)
2006-12-20 19:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by californiabaybe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone better and then she will realise what she said no to
2006-12-20 19:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about her. Find someone new to like.
2006-12-20 19:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up on her move on to another.
2006-12-20 19:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl.
2006-12-20 19:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not 'give up'
Move up to someone better.
2006-12-20 19:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋