My boyfriend is ALWAYS accusing me of looking at other guys and liking other guys...and things like that...I'm not allowed to talk to them for ANY REASON at all. And if one tries to talk to me I have to be mean to him. =( Today in 4th period he out of nowhere says "what were you looking at??" This is a question he asks ALL THE TIME. But I KNOW I wasn't looking at any guys! I never do!! He always thinks I am and I honestly have no idea where he is getting it. But he got so pissed at me and would not talk to me for the rest of the period and he still won't. Why does he do this? What can I do about it?? I'm so confused! I've tried telling him over and over I don't have a clue what he's talking about but he doesn't believe me =( Please help!
2006-12-20 11:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him now. No ands ifs or buts. The first stage of abuse is separating girls from other people, especially other males. Someone as insecure and controlling as that is only going to be trouble. If you have any doubts about your relationship, imagine having someone who cares deeply about you without your ever having to look over your shoulder or mind where your eyes wander. Sticking with this guy is going to get you hurt, emotionally and possibly physically in the long run.
2006-12-20 11:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jealous jerk. Dump him. You deserve someone better, someone who trusts you. Trust is an important part of a relationship, and is severly lacking in your current one. Find someone who will treat you better.
2006-12-20 19:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is this crazy because he thinks you looked at someone...he is a loser and potentially abusive. dump him. he is does not own you.
2006-12-20 19:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by atlas shrugged and so do i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋