My boyfriend is ALWAYS accusing me of looking at other guys and liking other guys...and things like that...I'm not allowed to talk to them for ANY REASON at all. And if one tries to talk to me I have to be mean to him. =( Today in 4th period he out of nowhere says "what were you looking at??" This is a question he asks ALL THE TIME. But I KNOW I wasn't looking at any guys! I never do!! He always thinks I am and I honestly have no idea where he is getting it. But he got so pissed at me and would not talk to me for the rest of the period and he still won't. Why does he do this? What can I do about it?? I'm so confused! I've tried telling him over and over I don't have a clue what he's talking about but he doesn't believe me =( Please help!
2006-12-20 10:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is being jealous and controlling. It's not fair and your don't have to put up with it. He has no right to dictate who you talk to - certainly, you shouldn't flirt with other guys or accept their flirting at you, but you do NOT have to be mean to them. You have every right to have male friends.
Ask your boyfriend why he is so upset and insecure about you talking to other men. Assure him that you would NEVER cheat on him or be unfaithful to your relationship, but that he needs to learn to trust you, and you do have the right to talk (in a non-flirting way) to whomever you choose.
If he is not willing to communicate with you or start trusting you, then you should dump him immediately. Men who are so unreasonable and controlling often turn violent, and that is not what you need.
2006-12-20 11:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds possessive, controlling and insecure. You are too young to be dealing with these kind of issues. Also, you are your own person and shouldn't be ran by some punk. Get rid of him is my advice for you and get a bf that respects you.
2006-12-20 19:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by ginluvsrob06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys look at girls all the time... so why can't girls do the same thing? your bf needs to be more secure...
2006-12-20 19:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry get rid of him -- if he wont trust you and is getting abusive you dont need that in your life
2006-12-20 19:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's jealous that other boys are giving you attention. That's how my grandparents act with each other.
2006-12-20 19:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Zacky Vengeance est.6661 :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just damn wired...he should trust you...he as a problem...seems like he wants to control you...maybe he is a control freak...no offense...
2006-12-20 19:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Arch_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋