Every guy that meets me always says that I am beautiful, but I do not know it. They also say that I am innocent and that I am beautifully simple. These may sound like compliments to others, but I can not understand why they never say that I am sexy or hot. Is this a bad thing? All of the guys who have made these statements always want to date me. It is very difficult for me to have male friends bc they always end up wanting more than a friendship. How can I avoid this? I just want them to understand that I just want a friendship, nothing more, but they continue to push it. They have the kind of personality that is like "if he cant be bf and gf then I dont want to be your friend" what is up with that?
2006-12-20 10:55:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont no if ur Q is about the beautiful and innocent, the hot and sexy or the Friends wantin more .
but anyway. u no ur self more than anyone else. if someone tells u that u r beautiful and u r not then hes just lyin to u, and u no that, same as if someone tells u that u r ugly but u no deep inside that is not true. so the bottom line is , u r beautiful the way u r. and dont waite for anyone to confirm that to u.
about the next part of ur Q, i think u just dont pick the right Friends, real friendship is hard to find. its not easy. and there's no specifications for good friends that i can give u or anyone else can.
its something that u will no by ur self. u no the good friend form the bad ones. so just be ur self and ull come up with some good ppl.
Good luck
2006-12-20 11:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would think it is better to be beautiful than hot or sexy because it means you are not only physically attractive you are beautiful on the inside as well. Some guys are just pushy, I know it is a pain but alot of guys would rather be a girls bf then just her friend no matter what you look like.
2006-12-20 11:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't want any friendship or anything, all they want is u, they are intrested in u not the reletionship, which is bad, I would say u ignore them but there are others who doesn't mind not going out with u or u know,.. there are others who their words trully matter, those are the real friends.
2006-12-20 11:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are compliments in a way. But they might just be saying that to get you to date them and they most probably have something else on their mind besides simple dating, so watch out girlfriend...
2006-12-20 11:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Esmerelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guys you hang out with need to grow up. Or, you need to find different friends.
2006-12-20 11:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its frequently a manner of telling the former in a no longer so type way hat they no longer have an activity in basic terms with that one they only had a friendship or relationship with!!!!!!!in different words the 1st will become in basic terms a prospect between the 2nd they are seeing!!!!!
2016-10-15 08:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they do not want to be a friend than they do not care about u at all, they just want 1 thing!!!!
2006-12-20 11:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm,being beautiful is a good thing.Beautiful outweights sexy and hot.
2006-12-20 10:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo chocco just tell them the way you said in your question Just Friends and nothing else none of this or none of that
2006-12-20 10:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a good thing because they don't just wanna have sex with you and live you.
2006-12-20 11:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋