the woman's age would range from 20 to 30.
2006-12-20 10:51:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has been asked many times before. Here's one answer I gave to a similar question (excluding physical characteristics):
I LOVE girls who are kind and optimistic. That sounds broad, but it's meant to be that way. Kindness covers a lot of stuff. Oh yeah, when a girl likes me very much and appreciates me, and wants to make me happy, that's an extremely powerful turn on. Any decent looking girl with all those characteristics could definitely get along with me. And of course, I would do the same for her. Have a nice day!
Here's a link to a more thorough answer:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061206095740AAxUFjG
Have a nice day!
2006-12-20 10:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start...
men are visually oriented. We start with looks. Body, face, boobs, butt and legs. If we see something that catches our interest, then we begin the check for receptiveness. Does the object of our desire blatantly ignore us, smile and make eye contact or act aloof.
For you Psych majors out there figure this one out. Men will generally pass up the aloof woman for the smile and make eye contact (one), blatantly ignore (two). Did I mention that we are also driven by competition? We like the hunt and challenge, but only to see if the object of our desire is ignoring us because she "likes" us or because she really is ignoring us as we are being a pest.
Ok, you fit the physical description. You are receptive to our advance. Now the little head starts thinking, "when can I come out and play?" If the answer is never, we chalk it up and move on. If there is a remote possibility that something can develop, we are back in the game.
Now, are we compatible? Do you meet the girlfriend criteria we have built in? If you like doing some of the same things we do, can talk about it intelligently, give us space when we need it, blah blah, blah. You will win.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-20 19:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A low psycho index.
Psycho Index (PI) consists of three measures: selfishness, possessiveness, and jealousy.
You know the girl who is SO competitive that she would hurt both of you and your relationship just so she can "win"? She has a high selfishness value.
You know the girl who calls as soon as you hang up from your last conversation? The one who fills up your email and voicemail box with messages? Yeah, she is probably pretty possessive.
How about the girl who freaks out whenever you're anywhere in the proximity of a member of the opposite sex? The one that you've had to cut ties with ALL of your friends because she had a dream that you might be bisexual so you can't hang out with guys either? yep.
I'm not saying that this applies only to women - men have an analogous PI as well. people who have 0 PI are literally bumps in the log; very boring. Then again, those with a high PI make nothing but trouble for themselves and everyone around them. The balance between "inorganic" and "completely psychotic" is our happy medium.
2006-12-20 19:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men look for the wrong things in women. Many would base their women by body type (thin, big boobs, big butt, nice teeth, and etc).
Few men would look for the inner beauty in women. Of course, these type of men are often hard to find. Women just need to open their eyes and find them.
The men who typically find their women based on compatibility often tend to stay in a long term relationship. Men who often find their women through attraction, often moves on after they got what they wanted. Of course, not all men are like this but there are men that are like this.
Women works just the same way. They often want their men to be just like a fairy tale. Good looking, muscular build, tall, and so on.
2006-12-20 19:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are different so all men would not like the same thing. some may be ready to settle down so are looking for someone to spend their life with. Some may be looking for one night stands or causual dating relationships. Some may like skinny girls, some bigger girls. Everyone's taste is different so you cannot generalize men into just one category. Just like all women don't like the same type of man. It is is who you personally would have a connection with.
2006-12-20 18:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I look for in a woman is some one that is not afaid to ask a guy out on a date
2006-12-20 19:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by rduck2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want someone who is affectionate, kind, confident, friendly towards his friends, not a party animal, demonstrates humility, not jealous of others, beautiful in his eyes on the interior and exterior, puts up with his dry sense of humor, and is a great cook!
2006-12-20 18:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well 6 months ago i would have said nothing in that age range --- far too young --- now independant strong intelligent funny sweet vulnerable
2006-12-20 18:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty, good values, loyalty, a giving heart, good cook, a team player who will make a nice nest for his children with her. They also have personal needs such as sex / there you must also be giving exploratory, devoted. beleive me, if you can let go of inhibitions and make him happy he will make you happy too.
2006-12-20 18:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She must be attractive to him and his tastes
2) She mustn't be too uptight, should be willing to trust him and accept him for who he is.
3) High maintenance isn't great either (unless you're a that hot an item)
2006-12-20 18:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋