My girlfriend had some family issues. What can I do?

Question

Yesterday, my girl Kelly, and I went out to see Borat at 9:15pm. When the movie ended, Kelly and I were about to leave the theater until her dad call ME on MY CELL! He asked for my name and wanted to speak to Kelly. I handed her the phone and She started yelling at her parents. She starting cusing, n saying f**k u, etc. Then she asked me to drop her off anywhere but home, I dropped her off @ the library but i followed her. Soon, her dad calls again and starts talking to me and asking where she is. As i looked up to see her, she was gone. I drove over to Kelly's house and spoke with her parents about what happened. I told them to calm down and not to not yell at Kelly when she gets home. Then i said to them,"If she does come home, don't even mention about it today, talk about it tommorrw with her." I also told them NOT to tell Kelly that i was at her house and that if they did, things would get worse. Well, her mom told her and now Kelly doesn't want to see me anymore. Was that wrong

Answer 1

Absolutely not! Do you have any idea how many weirdos are out there ready and waiting to snatch a girl who is alone? You did the right thing. Kelly is just upset because her parents are way too possessive of her life. She's mad at her parents probably more than you. She's probably really embarassed about what they did and ashamed to talk to you again. Give her time. But in the meantime, don't lose sleep over what you did. That was a very sweet thing to do.

Answer 2

It was wrong of you to go and lecture Kelly's parents about how they should deal with her. You have to realize, they'll just be thinking "who the **** is this tool, telling me how to raise my girl" without any consideration as to whether you are right or not (you probably are). Parents have a lot of pride in knowing their kids the best. You tell momma bear how to raise her cubs and she is going to eat your ***. Best thing you could've done was to go check if she's there, maybe ask them to have her call you if she got in (they won't give her the message, but they might look back and trust you more in the future).

As for Kelly...well...you're on your own, dude. Sorry. She doesn't trust you, since to her, you "went behind her back". You were just worried about her, but she's not going to realize that until she matures a bit.

Answer 3

imagine of a few thing that you 2 like doing at the same time and do this. I comprehend at the same time as I have a aggravating week or day, my husband will recommend us going for a walk in the course of the downtown problem in which there are various of shops and we basically talk, carry close a espresso, and take advantage of the ambience. We also would probably bypass get a superb sit down-down dinner or do some thing completely brilliant and new to take my mind off concerns. basically on account that your roomie is residing would not recommend you may't do some thing at residing. maximum persons have a television of their room and also you'll be able to employ some videos at the same time and order in nutrients, gentle some candles and furnish her a healing rub down on the same time as searching a movie. Then spend a large number of time on foreplay and make her the middle of information. I comprehend that very last area frequently works at relieving my pressure. :o) in case you reveal her that she is the middle of your global, then she will positively comprehend it and comprehend that you're there for her to lean on. good success and if I get up with some thing else, i will come back and replace.

Answer 4

You did it out of concern. Sure, maybe it shouldn't be your concern if you didn't receive calls on your cell phone. But it was your phone they were calling, so no, it wasn't wrong in and of itself.

Then again, if you wanted to stay with your girlfriend, apparently it was wrong. You made the decision you thought was best at the time. Unfortunately it didn't work out. I'm sorry for that. Hindsight is 20/20. Look at it this way: you could be saving yourself a lot of trouble.

Answer 5

Nope i dont think it was wrong at all.
It was the right thing to talk to her parents, but was a wrong thing for them to tell her. You know parents they get all curious and start acting up situations and other crap like that, they just want her to be safe. At least her parents saw you other then not even getting knwoing how you are. She needs some time. Support her, and take time to talk to her. She needs someone like you to make her happy not just her parents.
Take Care

Answer 6

no it was the right thing to do her mom is a ***** though cause you asked her not to say anything im sure kelly will come around to you again

Answer 7

its not your fault, it was the right thing to talk to her parents. she just needs a little time. you also need to talk to Kelly, not her mom. the story might have been changed through her mom, you never know. just dont be upset at her!

Answer 8

hmmm... that's a tough one. Why is she all mad at you? Is she like trying to hide you from her parents or something? She just sounds immature and she doesn't know what she wants. Because if she is that quick to turn you down, obviously she didn't like you that much. Im sorry man, mabey you can just give it time and she will come around.

Answer 9

well not ezactly because it was like stalking however if you help her and her parents resolve these problems and tell her if you are going to follow her form where ever you drop her of to see her to her destination then only do it if she dosn't say no

Answer 10

ya i guess u shouldnt done that.
she got some family issues which we all have and its really non of ur concerns unless she asked u for help.
anyway, u were juss tryin to help. give her sometime, she will workout here prob with here family and will probably forgive u for that .
good luck