okay so i KNOW i have a big chest for my age anyways, but what's up with them guys always staring @ it! also there are a couple of guys i have in Bio, and they try and play "basketball" get it? they try and shoot little pieces of paper in my shirt and hope they make it in. and the worst part is that swimming's coming up and i have been told that i look good in a swim suit. i know this is dumb but i DON"T want all the guys looking @ me cuz i have a major crush on this guy and he'll probably be looking 2 and i don't wan't him to like me for my CHEST SIZE! HELP
2006-12-20 10:30:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll just have to talk to the guy and get to know him to find out if he only likes you for your chest size. If he even likes you at all. Don't worry about it. There's no way you'll know until you've been talking to him for a while anyway. To keep pieces of paper from getting into your shirt, wear T-shirts. Trust me, you'll look just fine in T-shirts.
Your problem isn't just limited to women with big breasts. Men go through their whole lives wondering if women only want them for their money, or because no one better was around (ie, settling for less than expected). Just appreciate what you've got and be modest and you'll eventually sort through the chumps and find a good fellow. Good night!
2006-12-20 10:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wear low-cut shirts. You can't fix your size. You can fix how it is displayed. I'm very proud you're not flaunting yourself about, trying to get that guy you like with the assets you have that attract guys. Honestly, if you look good in a bathingsuit, don't worry about it! I'd suggest getting a more conservative one so no one can mess with you about it.
Those guys that stare at you are only flippin' buttheaded morons. They have no respect for you or any other woman and need to be beaten senseless. Or they just need to grow up. (although, there are times when the former is actually less painful than the latter)
I have something of a curvacious figure and it's hard to keep it from drawing a TON of attention. Just know how to dress. That's all I can say.
2006-12-20 10:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's tough being a teenager but remember, these years won't last very long so try to enjoy them as much as you can. Cover up a bit more but don't stress over whether a boy sees you in a bathing suit, if he likes you he will go out with you, if all he likes is your chest you will find out soon enough and know that he is as immature as most guys his age.
2006-12-20 10:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1) Unfortunately, we like boobs.. and so, we look at them... Actually, sometimes we don't even know we're doing it.. This is obviously new for you.. I remember my daughter coming home one evening and saying "I HATE BOYS!!!" for the same reason you mention...
2) I don't think there is anything you can do about them looking... However! THE BASKETBALL THING IS TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL AND I WOULD NOT TOLERATE IT FOR A MOMENT!!!!!! I realize they are just fooling around but it's your body they are fooling around with... IT'S O.K. FOR YOU TO GET UPSET ABOUT THAT AND TELL THEM TO QUIT... If they do not, then go to the authorities and tell them about it and how you feel about it... With sexual harassment being what it is today, I'm sure it will stop.. like immediately..
3) As you mature, you may even grow to like it... but that doesn't help you today.
- Sorry you have to experience this... good luck.
2006-12-20 10:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try wearing shirts that don't show too much cleavage? Wear more sweaters or baggy tops? Then again you run the risk of looking unflattering to the guy you like. What's wrong with him being interested in you for your physical attributes and finding more after getting to know you?
2006-12-20 10:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big boobs eh? There are women out there who would kill for a larger rack so deal with it. Hate to break it to you but relationships start out physical if you think about it. Looks are what attract people together. Thus, the physical part. GIrls with bigger boobs are naturally going to get more attention than girls with smaller boobs. It's natural and nothing you should be upset with. Guys are going to look at you and that is just the way it is.
2006-12-20 10:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're youthful, and the ladies you're round are youthful and dumb! they are drawn to the adult males who pay them interest (no matter if that's detrimental). In many years they're going to develop up and also you'd be precisely what they are seeking! Thats probably not waht you wanted to hearken to, i'm confident you're overlooking some gorgeous ladies that are too afraid to inform you they prefer you. do not supply up and do not end being the finished guy you possibly are!
2016-12-01 00:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by minogue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to grow up. in a few years other girls will be like u and they willleave u alone. mayeb the guy will like u for ur chest, but then he could get to know u and ur personality might make him like u even more. dont let a bunch of dumb boys bother u. if u rele want to get them to leave u alone wear a sweatshirt or something
2006-12-20 10:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your just gonna have to live with it because its how its naturally made and you cant change that try telling them to stop looking at your chest cause its a movie to watch (you don't have to say it like that)
2006-12-20 10:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to put up with the juvenile boys until
you find some men to date in a few years...
2006-12-20 10:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋