Hi everybody,
Well it's just very difficult for me to have relationship with girl.
Do you think I should turn to men, since there I am sure will be no problem.
Thanks!
2006-12-20 10:21:58 · 25 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your even thinkin about it your already a gay.
2006-12-20 10:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Styliztik 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Man,
In the be all and end all of things, admittin that you are gay is a tough thing. It's not a consious choice and you should really just take it as it comes. Dont force yourself into anything you know? And you know what? Gay men are capable of having serious long term relationships too. In melbourne where I am from it's normal to see guys walkin down the street holding hands or even woman. And just because you are a gay man doesn't mean that you have to act girly. Man half the gay population in Melbourne you would never guess was gay.
There aint anything psychologically wrong with you. Don't fear the lord or that you are sinning. Hell there are more than enough religions out there that dont see bein gay as a sin. Even some churches in australia hold mass for solely gay women and men for support.
Dont be scared but give yourself time to get used to any direction you want to move in. Bein gay doesn't mean you have to give anything up. They are changin the adoption laws (so yeah if you wanna think of your kids... adopt some) and the marrige laws are changin (You can get married in Melbourne now) hell I also spend time at Hard rock clubs, festivals, skateboarding events.
Good luck mate in any way you turn to. Just be happy.
2006-12-21 00:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by hauntedhello13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! the Bible says you should not be with the same sex but another so that means you should stick with girls.... if you are having trouble with girls just take a little time out...or maye you just have not found the right girl yet... so take some time and think " Who am I most compatable with" or "who completes me?" just think and if you think of her ask her out see how it goes and if you don't know anybody like that you just need to wait and be paitient the right GIRL will come along sometime :)
2006-12-20 18:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should figure out what makes you think that. Being gay has nothing to do with not getting along with girls the right way. I think what you'll find is one day this is a faze and youwill meet the perfect girl for you. Just think of your kids.
2006-12-20 18:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should but I could understand why you would but the thing is you just have to find someone who understands you. Not all women are the same, I promise. You just got to look in the right places and maybe someday when you least expect it you'll meet her. Until then never give up.
2006-12-20 18:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're gay than you may be going straight to hell. Only God could judge you though. Why would you wanna do a man where he does a number 2 though? Seek a Behavioral Analyst
2006-12-20 18:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you actually feel something for other men then no. take a break from dating and change your perspective on life( and i dont mean sexually) and mak some changes in life and after thats calmed downand you still want to be gay then go for it. sometimes it takes a while before you can get into a string of good relationships.
2006-12-20 18:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by dauschaundlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, feel so sorry for any girl who has any relationship with you...You are the worst nightmare for relationships. The creature who doesn't know who he is.
You should find out who you are first, learn responsibilities, only then you can go and touch others lives.
2006-12-22 11:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no....
there are a lot of people who r single. u just have to look for the right person.girls even have a problem with getting guys. ur born gay and ur born straight. if u have always been a girl fan then ur not gay!
2006-12-20 18:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask the question, the answer is no.
If you were asking about a specific man you might be attracted to, that would be a different story.
2006-12-20 18:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dotn turn gay unless u want to. if u are not attracted to girls and realise u like guys then go ahead. im not here to tell u to change ur life
2006-12-20 18:43:48 · answer #11 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋