Someoen called my fiance and said all nasty things about me. he didnt' want to tell me because he didn't want to hurt my feeligns. but after what he told me. i was very upset i felt like he belived him. and i ended up runnign to my mother and telling her, who then fliped out on my fiance and said the wedding will be off until he makes sure that he trusts me. I know its my fault because he didnt' even want to tell me about it. but now he said i will call you when i find out who called me before that i don't want to talk to anyone. its because when i was angry i told him dont call me until you find out who's calling you privatly and telling these things. i kow its my fault. but i dont' know what to do now. he's not answering my phone or replying to any of my messages. please help big time.
2006-12-20 10:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, I know you must be angry!!.I had a situation happen to me similar like this except they told him in his face, while I wasnt there! I was furious. The best thing to do is buy him alittle gift and have dinner with him or just a simple sit down to talk.Talk to him...Express yourself...HE NEEDS TO KNOW.Get on your knees and spill your heart out if you have to! If this is the guy you love and want to spend your life with, NOTHING IS TOO MUCH! Do what you have to do to make him believe you and be with you.I wish you the best of luck, Have a wonderful wedding and Happy Holidays :)
P.S.- SHOW UP AT HIS JOB UNEXPECTEDLY OR SOMEWHERE YOU KNOW HE IS GOING TO BE.
2006-12-20 10:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is this...Why would he listen to someone else AND what is up with him not talking to you? You both will spend the rest of your life working things out together...why does he have a problem doing that now?
I would be weary of anyone who threatened to cancel the wedding over hear-say. Good luck...
2006-12-20 10:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think that it's your fault, I think that whoever been calling is very jealous and don't want to see you two together. First off, when I would finally get thru to him I would let him know that I'm soory, then let him know that he shouldn't beleive what anybody tells him about you. Trust me if he still cares he will answer your calls,and reconcile with you. Take advice from yourself next time,I don't think that your mother had to know about your problems with him, unless it's very important,and you need someone to talk to.
2006-12-20 10:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by KayKay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignoring the problem is the worse thing to do. Go find him and tell him you two have to talk. Really get it off both of your chest, then you will see where you stand.
2006-12-20 10:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just out of curiosity, were these nasty things true?
Assuming they're not, if he's going to believe someone else instead of you, your better off ending it now.
2006-12-20 10:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to his house and apologize to him tell him that everything got out of hand and that you should not have involved your mother because she is not the one marrying him, tell him you are not going to run to mummy every time you and him have a fight.
2006-12-20 10:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be hurt that he didn't tell me ASAP!!! I would of done the same thing as u and your mom!!!!!!!IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!!!!!! He is NOT honest!!!!!!!!Ignore him for awhile UNTIL he buys you flowers etc. with a HUGE apology!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 10:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have non stop sex all weekend and everythingis ok
2006-12-20 10:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him cheel.
2006-12-20 10:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋