i have bein goin out with this boy for about a month now and its really weird because some nights i feel so inlove with him i hurts but some nights im not sure if i love him its really weird because i really really do want to love him soooo much and i want to be with him for a very long time but ... i just dont no this has happend with the past few boyfriends i have had and i have dumped after the first week and after just fallen so inlove with them its weird i dont no wat to do please guys give me some advice i dont want to loose him or leave him ,
2006-12-20 10:16:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 17 btw lol and not afriad to be single
2006-12-20 10:25:45 · update #1
it is not love, it is lust
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2006-12-23 01:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definately not weird. However, it could lead to complications in the future. Perhaps you and your boy will be together forever, but if your not; all of the sudden "loves you like a daughter" mom can become "obsessively angry texting, messaging, calling, why did you leave my son!?" mom. I know from experience and it isn't pretty at all. I wouldn't worry about it for now though, because after all a boyfriend's mom loving you is way better than hating you. :)
2016-03-29 01:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your hormones. If you've felt the same about different blokes then its not the blokes that are making the difference - its you. Sit tight, settle back and face facts: You're 17 and not ready to commit, enjoy what you can and don't promise anyone forever even if your heart is telling you so. You'll come out way wiser in the end if you don't make promises you can't keep.
And you'll be absolutely sure when you do meet the right one.
2006-12-20 10:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are fairly young. Maybe you shouldn't be pushing having a boyfriend for awhile. Maybe have friends who are boys, but not boyfriends. It sounds like you are not ready for a full time relationship on that serious of a level. Everyone has had people that they love so much...for a little while, then they get tired of them and move on. Give it time and you will find the right person.
2006-12-20 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your questioning whether or not you love him then maybe you need to take things slower and try to find out for yourself if you really do. Sometimes its harder to be single then it is to be with someone...because we get lonely and want to spend time with people. Be honest with him and ask for a bit of space. But just stay friends with him and see where that goes. Take care.
2006-12-20 10:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by kowalley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are scared of letting yourself feel what you want to.. your heart says you love him, but when you think about the past hurt you get scared and try to convnce yourself you don't love him...
I think you should speak to your partner adn tell him how you are feeling.. he will be able to reassure you and share your worries
Good luck x
2006-12-20 10:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your in love you will know it. I hate to tell you kid but this does'nt sound like it.
If you have only been going out for a month and are still in school...
Well I guess it depends on what grade, but you cant force yourself to love someone, it just happens.
2006-12-20 10:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not about forced feeling, it cannot be developed it blooms in your heart and flutters when you see that person or are near to him, if u do not feel these ways while being with him then it is not love
2006-12-20 17:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rachna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was only lust and now ur afraid to be single so ur trying to hard.. but i know how hard it is to tell the difference.
heck ur too young to be worrying bout such!
2006-12-20 10:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a big difference between lust and love?
2006-12-20 10:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately sleep with his best friend. If you feel bad then you probably did love him if you dont its because you didnt
2006-12-20 10:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by nuke81 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋