My parents are asian,,reall strict!! They say i go out too much when really the last time was before thanknsgiving! I really want to spend the night at my friends house because we just started to be friends this year. My parents don't know her but my mom met her today and she still said no!! How do I convince them to let me stay?
2006-12-20 10:15:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude you don't need to ask permission just escape. I use to do that all the time back then, but if you really want an excuse just tell them hey look whats that behind you and then disappear.
Haaa its hard to convince your parents to do things when they have made their choice to say the truth your the only one who knows your parents, so you got to figure out what works for them. Me all i did was escape, so thats all i could really help you with bub. Peace out lates
2006-12-20 10:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were the same way with me when I was in school. The best thing you can do is try to introduce her parents to your parents and maybe they will feel more comfortable. But with all of the things that go on in today's world I would be a little leary too if I had kids, I must admit. You may have to miss spending the night for a while until they become more comfortable with your friends family.
2006-12-20 10:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if your friend can spend the night at your house first and invite your friends parents over to eat dinner at your house, that way your parents can meet her parents and see if they like the girl or not.
2006-12-20 10:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if your parents will let her stay over at your house. This way, they can get to know her better and maybe if her parents come to pick her up or drop her off they can meet your's. This is a good way to break the ice I think.
2006-12-20 10:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your mom met her today does not mean that she knows her. i think i would invite your friend over a few more times so that your parents can get to know her, then ask her again. or ask if she can spend the night at your house.
2006-12-20 10:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you pushing this plan?
How old are you two?
You bring in (Asian) and your your new friend IS?
Trista, You just may be rushing your new friendship.
Do you have a something else going on with your friend?
You post a story of two girls without much detail.
There is an urgency to be together.
I wonder what you are up to.
2006-12-20 10:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are 18 then tell ur parent u are 18 old enough to be mature - if u are under 18 which u still have to listen ur parent rule . but how about this ur friends can come ur house instand u cant go by ur friend house? which is easy for u
2006-12-20 10:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, try to let her over to your house. If that doesnt work, try to get your parents to know her and her parents a little better. Eventually, you'll be able to go over to her house. Just keep trying.
2006-12-20 10:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there just trying to protect you maybe the reason they said no is because they hardly know her are her parents listen to them but you can try convincing them that your responsible enough to stay.(if that's the reason why they wont let you stay)
2006-12-20 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to them, you'll thank them later. i know what you're going through, and really, it's not a big deal, and you said that you just became friends with her this year. just hang out after school or something, if your friend is really a good friend, she'll understand
2006-12-20 10:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by jenny s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋