we talked/dated for 4 years and I'm a junior in highschool so.. that's a long time! we were split up by my parents many of times. they believed he wasn't good enough for me and that I deserved so much better. He didn't have a job or a car and he was depressed and that's not what they wanted their daughter 2 be surrounded by. We would stop talking for months on end and then somehow started talking again. He was my bro's bestfriend so we kept it a secret for a while til word got out and just recently my mom warned me again to tell him to stay away from me and she put out a restraining order against him. that's how serious she was. I catch myself thinking about him all the time, and it hurts bc i know i can never talk to him again. I miss him a lot and Idk how to get over my feeling of brokenness.
2006-12-20 10:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its best to stay away. If he violates the restraining order,You'll never see him.
Wait til you're older.
2006-12-20 10:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends and then when you old enough to choose what to do then you decide. you to young to have to go threw those problems and your family is just trying to keep you from heartache that you don't see. he may be good at being a best friend. but from what you wrote not so good at being a boyfriend... besides you haven't even went to college yet there's a whole world out there waiting for you reach for it all....one
2006-12-20 18:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents should stay out of your buisness because if you have feelings for him you should be able to express them. try telling your perents how you feel about him and try and get them to understand. just because he seems depressed doesnt mean he wont treat you right. you might be able to get him on his feet and help him find a job and save for a car and stuff
2006-12-20 18:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by VoodooTribe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so weird that actually happen to just a month ago me and my boyfriend broke up cause we were scretly together because he was my brothers bestfriend and i love him so much but i have to forget him and u too but its meant to be destiny would always find its way!!!
2006-12-20 18:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time out for awhile and get interested in something else, if the feelings r still there then go for it!!!!!!
2006-12-20 18:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date his closest mate!!
2006-12-20 18:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Aric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋