ok so im a junior and there is this guy that i didn't really notice until like november (after h.c.) and then i just started to have feelings for him but the problem is that i don't know THAT much about him. we have only talked like twice and everything. we have 2 classes together (1 in the morning and 1 in the afternoon) but he's always around his friends when i want to try and talk to him. and between classes i rarely see him... so my question is does anyone have advice so i would be able to get his attention? (we do have myspaces... as a little fact) so do you think i should start talking to him over that or just at school or both??
oh yeh today was our last day until january 8th so i wont get to see him at school until then.
2006-12-20 10:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just as an f.y.i.
im really REALLY shy around people that i dont know and guys (especailly).
so if this helps anyone with their answer...COOL!!
2006-12-20 10:26:29 · update #1
I would take the Christmas break as an opportunity to get yourself a new boyfriend! MySpace is an easy way to start flirting and realize that your an option (if he doesn't know already) Guys tend to not notice anything unless its thrust into their faces! Be funny and flirty! Act like its no biggie! Eventually move to he phone and then to the public. Always act like it's no big deal either way! Guys want what they can't have. Just be brave! You can't loose what you don't have! Good luck!
2006-12-20 10:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by doodlerah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm at a high school where MSN is a must so I had a class in common with my crush. I asked for her MSN in case I needed homework help. Voila. We started talking so I was able to get to know her. Sadly she had a boyfriend. But that's life. You can say hey merry christmas. Did we have any homework over break? or How's your break? Start on Myspace. I'm not that familiar with it but if you can send a personal message. Exchange email adds. Good luck.
2006-12-20 10:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you hardly know him but you want to get to know him. Just do it, if you never talk to him you will never know what you and him could have been like. I think you should talk to him at school everynow and then and at least twice a week on myspace and who knows maybe when you two get well aquainted he'll want to take you on a date or something. Some guys don't really notice when girls like them so you have to take it up just a notch so if you have a chance say hi at least and just grab his attention. And don't worry about him liking you or not because that's just silly. Good luck.
2006-12-20 10:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, talk to him on myspace. Then his friends wont be around listening(you hope). Guys act different when they are with friends too. Did you ever watch "Grease"? If not, I would. See where it leads to over the holidays and if he's interested he'll IM you or talk to you in school too.
2006-12-20 10:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are stupid until they hit about 25.
And you've known the boy for a month, it's not true love. Talk to him, be his friend.
I'm 22 and gosh, high school was such BS. If you only knew sweetheart.
Dont let his friends rule you! If you wanna talk to him, then talk to him. They don't own you. lol. Go up and say hi. ask him how his break was, how x-mas was. What did he get....etc. (That would create a whole convo, then just goooo)
2006-12-20 10:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Maybe you should try to contact him over the internet, maybe since he's not going to be around his friends you can talk to him for real and tell him how you feel and who knows maybe when school starts back you two may be a couple.
2006-12-20 10:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Supa_Sexy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally what i would do to get his attention is if you have a question about your work or somethign ask him??? sometimes that can trigger a conversation.or just walk up to him and say hii mean unless you are shy i dont know..if you have more info i could help you. send me a message . i hope i can help myspace is a great way too also. it probably would be alot easier. to me that is...
2006-12-20 10:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly try to hang out more with his friends as a way to get to him, participate in the things he enjoys.. any clubs he is in or activities or hobbys? Try talking to him on myspace, have a friend tell him your interested.. thats the way I did it when I was in high school, I acually married my high school sweety.. !
2006-12-20 10:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Holly is cellorific! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both would be good. But if you have courage to ask him out, do it to his face. Since school's out you could talk over myspace, but I always prefer face to face.
2006-12-20 10:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok even if he is round his friend don't be scared girl you is in high school so tell him that you like him it don't mean anything just talk to him just say can i talk to you and tell him how you fell or paly hard to get or just wear tight pants and stuff like thats so if you have any question myspace is fish23
2006-12-20 10:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutey123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋