my ex (since monday) is on his way to see me (travelling 150 miles)... He broke up with me because he doesn't want to get hurt, says he has very strong feelings for me, thought he was ready for a relationship but is finding it very hard... (long distance!!) Need advice on how to handle it.. don't want to get upset... really want him to change his mind!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 10:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just build his confidence in your relationship
Say come on were not like the others we have something special etc we can stand the extra strain because when we see each other it is sooooo wonderful and right
Men like all mushy stuff as well as women, just give him great s.ex and he will be back time and time again
Good luck x
2006-12-20 10:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to talk there is no other way be honest say ur not finding it easy either but you believe that the relationship has a great chance. but make sure he's willing to put the effort in to although that distance sounds like it!:))
2006-12-20 10:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance romance works if both of u try at it, i've been with my gf for 2 years now, she teachin english in the far east n we make effort to talk everyday n visit when cash allows us to. trust it works when u try if u give up then its no point. your only up n down the country so its bound to work out, look at me we on different sides of the world n we still good :)
2006-12-20 11:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by it_wasnt_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are toooo hard to maintain. Don't expect him to change his mind and understand where he is coming from.
2006-12-20 10:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hint that you have another man showing an interest in you, he will soon be back. works approx 90% of the time, the other 10% the man has another woman on the go. try it out........go on be a devil.
2006-12-20 10:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by jardon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont.
dont think coz he is coming to see you , it doesnt mean to say he now wants to be with you.
he has made his feelings clear.
just see how it goes when you see him. dont get your hopes up. that way you wont be let down.
been there im afraid!
2006-12-20 10:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on explore other options (check out new people)
2006-12-20 17:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rachna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have to find out why he's coming and that may answer your question for you.
good luck
2006-12-20 11:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you asked this question enough times yet
If you don't know by now then why should we bother answering
2006-12-20 10:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do make sure you must not your own feeling for anybody elses
2006-12-20 10:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by bahareh n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋