my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 5 wks ago we have been through alot she has anerxica whice has not helped when she broke up with me we did not shout i was upset but we ended on good terms. She said she wanted to stay friends whice i wanted to because we really get on well,this sounds bad but i don't find her attractive anymore because of her weight but i do love herso much.Thing is 1st week she called and we meet 4 a drink talked 4 2 hours that was good,then 2wk n/c , 3wk i was texting her friend to find out how she was and she called angry at me for talking to her friends.4wk tryed to text her to say hi and she did not get back to me so i called and she was very cold to me.then this wk xmas i got a card from her in the post and i was not happy b/c i though at least she could spare 10min of her time to give me it in person so i posted back saying this, and she said after breaking up that she will still get me a xmas present or was it all lies what do you think!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 10:06:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit talking to her. Time will heal your wounds, talking to her won't.
2006-12-20 10:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is trying to move on with her life which is most definitely what you should do. You have spent 4 years of your lives together and for numberous reasons, it didn't work. According to your description of the relationship, you seem like a very caring, patient, and loving guy. Don't let those beautiful qualities go to waste because you're trying to hold on to something that doesn't want to be held. If she wants to continue to be friends, and you can handle her in that capacity, then be friends. But if you know you're going to want more from her than she's willing to give, then my suggestion would be to cut of any type of social interaction.
Good luck sweetie!
2006-12-20 10:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not think it was "all lies" taht she said she'd get you a present. Seems to be she is going through the difficulty/hardship of a break up and her being anorexic isn't helping either. Psychologically, she sounds a bit off kilter but all you can do is be there for her. If the relationship is not mutual, then do not continue to seek it out. It's hard but you will move past it.
Good luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-20 10:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U did say she was your ex correct ?well let her be leave it alone
2006-12-20 10:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-12-20 10:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. I think you'll be happier and better off if you do.
2006-12-20 10:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go!! Move on!
2006-12-20 10:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think miracle whip will help
2006-12-20 10:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by grand master killa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it requires that much energy.......Let go and let god.
2006-12-20 10:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋