so this guy and I have been hooking up since July. He is one of my brother's best friends and we have both had a thing for each other for years.Well the thing is, is that he has a girlfriend. A live in girlfriend that he has been with for like 2 years.
He says that they are more like best friends and that if he breaks up with her and asks her to move out that she will have no one and be S.O.L. When I see them together it is obvious there is no chemistry. The don't hug, hold hands, or even really talk to each other too much. It really is just like they are roommates. He doesn't even sleep in thier room with her most the time and he tells me they haven't even been intamite in months.
I know it sounds like he is just playing me, but its more than just hooking up with me and him. We talk everyday and text all day. We have this real connection that is far from just physical. He told me the other day that he knows she is cheating on him too.
what do you think??
2006-12-20 10:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should find another guy.... you seem to be an intelligent person. What do you picture happening in this relationship? Sounds to me like this guy is getting the best of both worlds...He gets his live in g/f and his side g/f too. If i were in a situation like that I'd tell you the same thing, "yeah hon, she just lives here, we're not intimate and blah blah blah...." seems to me like he's playing you....Plus the guy told you he suspects she's cheating? cheating is only cheating if there's a relationship going on....you know what I mean.
Finally, if this relationship between those two did end, what makes you think he wouldn't have another side gf...technically if he has a g/f, then he's cheating with you.....so if he dumps her....you think he wouldn't cheat on you?
Either way you look at it, it seems like it's a jerry springer episode waiting to happen, and you should walk away before the fit hits the shan, know what i mean?
Whatever you choose, I wish you luck :)
2006-12-20 10:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so which is it?
A) He told me the other day that he knows she is cheating on him too.
or
B) that she will have no one and be S.O.L.
now we are both smart enough to know it can't be both
i'd tell him to crap or get off the pot
2006-12-20 10:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't even be in that predicumant because if he really has a thing for u he wouldn't be living with her. So, yes he is playing u.
2006-12-20 10:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by wise girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont they just break up completely if they are both cheating on each other. then they can just be with the ones they are cheating with and no one will be sol
2006-12-20 10:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be in what ever he and this girl have going on stop sleeping with him and cut him off all together he will only hurt you. he and his girl are just nasty like that
2006-12-20 10:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if all dats goin on yall can hook up he aint playin you gurl just 4 get her she's nuttin obviously clear dey aint meant to b
2006-12-20 10:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by kesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should dump if she is cheating and maybe he really does like you if he tells you things like that
2006-12-20 10:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tewen G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-20 10:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what he is doing!
Oh...and you are a DIRT BAG!
HAHAHAHA you deserve to be played
2006-12-20 10:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just thinking your dumb, yea that's it you are.
Didn't pass you any.
2006-12-20 10:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋