when i have sex i have to fake it. and when i masterbate i dont have one either!! its not fair! i want one! please tell me what to do!
2006-12-20 10:03:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try me
2006-12-20 10:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by abnormalmale 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not silly. Believe it or not but a high percentage of women don't have orgasms. Its not something they like to talk about. Personally I do not believe that there is a sure fire way to have one either. You should NEVER fake having one though. Who does it benefit to fake it? Don't try to stroke a guys ego. Its not anyones fault that it doesnt happen and by faking it your taking the blame for not having one. Let the guy know you never had one...it makes them want to work even harder to be the first one to give you one.
2006-12-20 10:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could it be that you are trying too hard?
You should be enjoying the process, not trying to reach a goal as though you're playing soccer.
There are a number of reasons why this may not be happening. Go to your library & get some books. Read & practice. And get a vibrator; they aren't expensive. You just may need a bit more stimulation to push you over the top.
2006-12-20 10:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are totally normal with your situation. Have you tried going to a sex store and seeking advice from someone there! There are a lot of sex toys that can help you out and they don't get tired!!! HA!!! you just have not found your G-spot! Have you and your bf done different positions, role play, foreplay, and watch porno! Try to spice up your sex life...do something different!!! You may not have an organsim but at least you'll have fun trying!!!
2006-12-20 10:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not silly. A LOT of women have never had an orgasm and fake a lot (which I don't commend, but neither do I condemn). YOU can find your g-spot. :) You have to be totally open-minded and not thinking of anything. Could be that you haven't let your man 'take you there' yet so just let go of all inhibitions. Or could be he is not satisfying you. Either way, play around and I guarantee you WILL find it (masturbation never hurt anyone...all girls do it) :)
2006-12-20 10:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything worth having is worth waiting for. Don't fake it - or you will never have one - take your time and enjoy yourself - it will happen when you least expect it. Try and get rid of the inhibitions and just let yourself really get into it. Good luck.
2006-12-20 10:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Most women don't seem to start having orgasms or really intense orgasms until after they turn 30. Just like they(women on here) tell you. Relax, breathe and let lose all your inhibitions.
2006-12-20 10:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be completely relaxed. Try not to expect one while having sex and just enjoy your man. The right guy will get you to climax.
2006-12-20 10:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kinda believe dark wolf in that if someones elbow replaced into touching mine and somebody else replaced into hitting me identity tell them to quit and in basic terms go away the different one there. i think of youve have been given 2 ideas a million. in basic terms forget relating to the sensation which would be troublesome 2. in case you think of your friends are stable sufficient pals to tell them your gay then gain this. strategies-set the guy you like first and tell him, i dont understand how thatll pan out yet its worth a shot in case you think of its worth it. and who knows mabye hes gay aswell and the 'im rapidly' element replaced into in order that which you or your different pals didnt tease him. its as much as you. p.s how old are you bcuz if your like 10-aobut 17 your hormones nevertheless are in all risk messing around with you slightly. yet whilst your helpful then choose for it. and if your friends dont settle for that then go discover new pals. Goodluck
2016-12-15 05:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really not much you can do. i know how you feel ive had the same problem but.like the rest said .just relax. you know you cant force it. ive had better luck on top personally. i can go at my own pace and it works for me. have you tried that..... it may help.... i hope i helped
2006-12-20 10:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just find a big man. By big, I mean big down there.
Or watch some movies to help you.
2006-12-20 10:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋