I got a problem which l will need lot of ideas and comments. I met a girl and she is my girlfriend now. When we are walking along the street, she watches every guy who passes by. Is can even say : oh look he looks cute: I was so much confused and l decided to comfront her one day. she told me in her country "ukraine, they watch just like that. I told her for me that is more than a flirt and also the comments that follows. This made me to be jealous. I decided to flirt but she does not react like how l react towards hers.I even sometimes saythings like " oh look she got a nice shape" just to make her feel how l feel, but nothing makes her mad. I started loosing interrest in her, but l am stuck in her. she tells me she loves me but she seems not to understand me. I later told her that she was behaving like a ***** because dear readers l could not take it anymore. This word makes her mad, but she never stops and it became a word on my mouth towards her. Is that flirting?
2006-12-20 10:00:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
=you sound like a really great guy that would be a great boyfriend to someone who is not into games and appreciates you. It may be a cultural difference but obviously it is not working. Take it from me and stop wasting your time cause this is not workable. Good luck.
2006-12-24 04:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't bring it up now. Try to talk to her, no matter how emotional it may get, because if she's ignoring you and you have no reason to believe that you did anything wrong, you need to confront her about that. There is no reason really to bring up something that happened two months ago and maybe you mistook her being friendly to another guy as flirting. So long as she isn't cheating on you, it's really nothing serious and may make her even more upset. Good luck!
2016-03-29 01:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have issues, you're insecure. the real issue is if that really is the case in the Ukraine, of which you could have found out first before jumping to conclusions the way that you did. unless she's actually doing anything, there isn't really any reason to get bent out of shape; sounds like a nice girl to have ...
2006-12-20 10:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's not cheating, but if it's that troublesome for you and she won't quit the behavior you should break up with her. You don't want to spend your whole life being pissed off and jealous. There are other girls out there that feel the same way as you do. Find one!
2006-12-20 10:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just flirting, get over it. At the end of the day she's with you and not those guys. She's entitled to her opinion on what guy looks sexy or cute. You're entitled to your opinion. She is not bothered by it because she trusts that you want to be with her. Let it go, at least there's no physical interaction going on.
2006-12-20 10:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all shes doing is looking. you should be happy that she comments in front of yo. i am sure if she had other motives she wouldn't be saying it to you the way she does. just try to relax, looking is something that everyone does. the fact is that she is with you and not them and this is what you should be paying attention to.
all the best
2006-12-20 10:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad you have a girlfriend that is good enough to talk and confront it. I mean all women do that including me but I look at everything like everything/ everyone distracts me!
2006-12-20 10:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't even worry bout it she can flirt and window shop all she wants but she is dating you so obviously at tha end of tha day
your than man she's gonna be thinkin bout. As long as she don't touch it's natuaral.
2006-12-20 10:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't really get jealous, but you do. I would just tell her that you don't like hearing about it. If you don't trust her maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship with her.
2006-12-20 10:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not flirting, it's just looking, and being opeen with your partner. Everybody looks, she's just open enough to be able to talk about it with you.
2006-12-20 10:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋