My girlfriend is hanging out with her sister, and her sisters boyfriend. Recently, the boyfriend has brought a friend along, and they have been going out on double dates. Should I be worried that she is cheating on me, or am I just pancaking?
2006-12-20 09:54:42 · 37 answers · asked by Genesis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pancaking? dude that line was funny as.. seirously i must be a lamo.
i think the situation does seem pretty suss, i think its a bad idea that ur gf is hanging out with people and other guys (single) that arent you and she isnt inviting you along. i would think the sisters boyfriends friend (whoa that was crazy) would be looking to steal ur girl, but it depends on how well ut rust ur girl, and how comfortable it makes u feel knowing she is having a good time with someone else.. obviously it makes u feel like crap otherwise u wouldnt have written here.. just confront her. find out the truth.
good luck. ps. if she has cheated on u, spit i her face and bash her eyes out with a stick..
2006-12-20 10:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT! Why aren't you the there for that double date. Seems the sister/boyfriend or your girlfriend may be trying to find her someone else! I would nip it in the BUD asap. I wouldn't go with another man on a double date if I already had a boyfriend. I think she is on the verge of cheating on you!!!!!!
2006-12-20 09:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u go along and see?
Does your girl call it a double date? Maybe she's just trying to hang out with her sis and her idiot boyfriend wants his friend there.
2006-12-20 09:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too quick to judge. My sister and her boyfriend have brought me along on their dates plenty of times, and they usually have someone for me to just have fun with and talk to. It's usually so i'm not the third wheel when i'm staying with them. But don't be too quick to let it slide either. Check it out, don't stalk her or anything... Just tell your friends to keep an eye open in case anything is happening..
2006-12-20 10:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ashleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe not. She might just need some space from a boyfriend that she has been spending out awhile. She might just be looking for a new friend. I think you are exaggerating a little and panicking. I think you just need to sit back and relax have her some time then confront that she might of hurt your feelings and maybe something will happen! Bye!!
2006-12-20 10:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um the fact that she calls it a double date.. yeah. The fact she says its with her sister..probley cause I used to cheat before I was saved and I used to use all kinds excuses..friends.. family.. sister was one.. I suggest you ask if you can come along..why wernt you invited? Thast a question to be considered.
2006-12-20 09:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Holly is cellorific! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind, she's cheating. Just find someone else to hang out with. It's over dude. If you see her let her know you think it and it's pretty obvious, dont be sad about it, just tell her if that's what she wants then that's fine.
Then walk away very professional like, if she's not interested in him she'll come back to you. If you're a jerk she'll never come back to you.
2006-12-20 10:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea there is that possibly that she is cheating on you! Why is she not inviting you to the movies and why is she taking some other guy? Think of that! That kind of explains it! Sorry to hear the but there is more fish out in the sea!
2006-12-20 09:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she be going on double dates with her sister and another guy? Why can't you go with them? If you are denied going along with them then I would suspect that something more is going on and either put a stop to it or move on...
2006-12-20 11:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. To me, it sounds like she is. You should try to talk to her about that . Other than that, if she is still cool with you then you are just panicking. If you want to experience that, then justgo out more often with her and you can also go on a double date.
2006-12-20 09:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋