Okay. My boyfriend died about 2 weeks ago. But i've always been in love w/ this other guy. Since June. And he's in love with me. Really in love. But if i go w/ him, then everyone will totally think im a bitchh. What should i do?
2006-12-20 09:53:50 · 16 answers · asked by Karen Smith 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I won't lie I have never had a boyfriend die but honestly its your life and you make your decsions if anyone judges you and disses you they were not your friends from the get go, Do what you feel in your heart it may sound corny but its true
2006-12-20 09:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by poetic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love, then you shouldn't care what anybody thinks about you. Just go for it! You didn't go with him because you are a *****! You went because you are truely in love with him, and your boyfriend (i'm really sorry about that) wouldn't have wanted you to suffer alone for the rest of your life! (or year.)
Being a ***** isn't going out with the guy you love 2 weeks after your boyfriend died. Being a ***** is killing your boyfriend so that you could go out with somebody else. True love is true love, and there is nothing else to it. If other people think you are a *****, that's their problem and that just means that they have never experienced any true love. If it's true for you, GO FOR IT GIRLFRIEND!
2006-12-20 17:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Elle Belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in love with someone else this fast? And if you've always loved this person like you say why were you with your deceased bf?. I'd wait a while just to be sure I wasn't using this person as a void to replace someone I just lost
2006-12-20 17:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out on some dates with him and if you like him continue
your boyfriend died?
2006-12-20 17:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Vertisoply L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I think it's no ones business and you went married to him.I say go for it.I am sorry for your lose, and at this time you need your man in your life to comfort you.to hell with everyone else
2006-12-20 17:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Weeks?
Only two weeks and your considering going out with another guy.
Either you are a total s.l.u.t. or just young.
2006-12-20 17:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should wait a few MONTHS before considering dating anyone or people will think you're a sIut, ***** or even murderer.
2006-12-20 17:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by ny2la_usamex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait about 3 months then go for it
2006-12-20 17:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and take it easy and u shouldnt care what people think of u. IF u love him and he loves u ... then be happy. dont worry so much
2006-12-20 17:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why a *****.... make yourself happy, if you like him then go out with him. It is your life and your happiness. Do worry about other people just yourself and what you want in life.
2006-12-20 17:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by ~College Lovin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋