This guy has been in my head for 5 1/2 years.
im not obsessed, im not a stalker--i cant get over him.
heres the thing--
we used to be best friends, and one summer things got so screwed up.
we didnt really talk after that.
he was mean to all my friends, hes changed so much.
but sometimes i hang out with him when i hang out with his friends and i fall for him again.
i dont know what to do anymore.
2006-12-20 09:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Kendall :] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wanna get over him and belive me i have tried way too many times but sometimes we just happen to be in the same place at the same time and...i jsut cant do anything about it.
2006-12-20 09:55:52 · update #1
Leave him alone. That's all you need to do. He's cute and charming when he's with his friends, right? When he talks to your friends, he's a real demon, right? Because it looks like he's two-faced, you should put him out of your mind.
2006-12-20 09:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define "best friends"! To some people that just means the person they end up seeing the most. If that's all it was for you, move on and time will heal up the wound. If you had some sort of deeper connection with him than maybe your friendship is worth trying to save. It depends on what caused things to get "so screwed up" and whether that is at risk of happening again. Does this guy have any interest in rekindling your friendship? If you are on good enough terms just ask him. Than both of you will find out what each other wants and you can move forward from there.
2006-12-20 17:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by rude_girl_terry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, but is he or your friends more important to you? I would question if he has really changed. However I would not get your hopes up because some guys are just not the way they seem to be. I would think about giving him another chance, but after that I would move on.
2006-12-20 18:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by kathy y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its easier said than done, but the best thing for it is to try and find someone else as thats the only way ur gonna get him off ur mind, or else ull be stuck in a rut. Btw do u have any idea if you can actually get close to him? maybe try that get the old relationship back again? but then agian u say hes changed alot, maybe its for the best u went ur different ways?
2006-12-20 17:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow think it over you sound confuzed, and you kno it to are u fallin for him for all the right reasons or do u still ahve the feelings before the summer feud? or is it that you regret of what happen and feel sry? Think about it, then get back to the real question
2006-12-20 17:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good lord, some people on here are really cold sometimes... anyway, avoid him as much as possible and DON'T hang out with him and his friends
2006-12-20 17:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how he is now again, do some soul searching on the pros and cons of him etc. Good luck!!!!!
2006-12-20 17:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a real a man and forget about him.
2006-12-20 17:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get over it and move on.
2006-12-20 17:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he thinks that all of your friends think he's a jerk and so instead of arguing with it he just does that. he acts like an ***. mayb you should tell the guy that you like him. who knows maybe he likes you back.
2006-12-20 17:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋