i am dating this girl and for the past 3 weekends we have hung out and cuddled with 3 different people and now her mom and sis are mad because we are together and her mom is mad because the week B4 she had someone for two days and it didnt work out and now she is with me and her mom is saying that she is a slut because she is with me after dating the other guy for 2 day. WHAT DO I DO
2006-12-20 09:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by joey_spags 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-20 09:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on your value system.
Apparently, her mom is of the value system that believes that being "with" someone indicates a commitment of some type and is angry with her daughter for either not being more certain of the commitment, or for backing up and getting "with" someone else so quickly.
If you don't believe that being "with" someone indicates a commitment, then you are both on the same page - its all good and mom needs to mind her own business.
On the other hand - you don't get to get mad if she dumps you in a heartbeat for someone else. Of course, you have the same option.
Your choice and good luck:)
2006-12-20 09:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazymamaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It's her family so its something they need to sort out. How old are you anyway? If she is of age (legal age) then her mom can only offer advise and thats about it. If she is underage then tough....and I think she is because mom and sis is in the picture. Kids...they go out for three weekends and they're already 'dating'.
2006-12-20 09:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by GardenMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do depends if you want to date this girl seriously. If you do, speak with this girl first and see what her reaction is. If she accepts to work on the relationship, create opportunity to speak with her mom that you both would need her support to ensure that the relationship succeeds tihs time. Her mom would understand. However, you both need to work hard on the relationship and not to disappoint her mom.
2006-12-20 09:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should pay more attention in school. Middle School is where you learn alot of important things, like spelling, grammar, and the type.
Second, I can't read your text so I say you dump her and hit the next hot poontang that comes around.
2006-12-20 09:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WAZ IN THIS PROBLEM BEFORE IT'S NOT GOING 2 CHANGE THE FACT THAT SHE IS A PLAYER PLAYING U,THE WAY I SEE IT IS MAYBE IT CAN WORK BUT IT'S A 50,50 CHANCE NOW BECAUSE SHE HAS DONE THIS UR MIND HAS ANSWEAR'S 2 BUT U DON'T KNOW IT YET, IT'S GONNA BUG U AND EAT U AWAY TILL IT GET'S INTO BIGGER ISSUE'S, TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.
2006-12-20 09:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by vance b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok one of my best friends is dating this one girl just like you and the same problem is happening but hes sticking it out and i think you should too because just from that other guy it think you should still go out with her and if things get worse you should do something about it but if you actully love her i think you should just forget about the other stuff and just b wit her
2006-12-20 09:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. This is really a family issue. If you just tell ur girl that it makes you uncomfortable. She will try to do something
2006-12-20 09:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by gubbgoogoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother listening to her family. What do they really know any ways. You guys do what you want to do as long as there are no innocent victims.
2006-12-20 09:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don;t let her get to you, tell you gf to tell her mom that she dumbed the guy for a reason and found a better guy , you
2006-12-20 09:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from the whole family!
2006-12-20 09:40:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋