This happened to me yesterday. I wanted to curse him out cause it was creeping me out the way he was looking at me. That is just gross.
2006-12-20 09:32:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Hon'
Welcome to the land of reality. If he wasn't doing anything but looking, he did nothing wrong.
Men, ESPECIALLY young men, have no control over when they will get an erection. This is merely human. Give the guy a break:)
On the other hand if you a a young person, less than 18 and he is a mature man, over 25, staring at you like that. Well, report him to the police. A grown man is not allowed to noticeably stare at a minor 'that way'. He can look but he better keep it cool or he can get asked some very uncomfortable questions by the local authorities.
2006-12-20 09:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazymamaca 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well whether you should or shouldn't doesn't really apply. You are allowed to feel however you want, but I wouldnt go so far as to curse that person out.
Attraction is a funny thing and sadly for guys nature has made it a little more obvious. However, I am not condoning his staring at you or the fact that he made it so obvious that you noticed.
I would like to give you something to think about. This was good advice that a friend gave to me. In any situation you have 2 choices to either give the other person power over you and let it bother you or to let it go and go on with your day. If you let it go the only person wrapped up wasting time on what happened is them and you are free to enjoy your day. Between the choice of ruffled or happy.. I'd rather be HAPPY and take it as a compliment that person found me attractive and move on with my day (maybe in boosted up a little.. its nice to know you can rock a person's world just by being there.) Odds are you are never going to see that person again anyway.. so why let it affect you in a negative way?
Congrats on having it going on!
2006-12-20 09:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do about it except maybe call him out on it if there are more people around so they can laugh at him? Try to embarrass him for making you feel that way? Best thing to do would probably be to just look the other way and leave as soon as possible.
2006-12-20 09:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. But stay in your car with the doors locked and don't go back to that station just in case the guy is a weirdo.
2006-12-21 07:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that happen too, take it as a complement, but stay away from him. I can't talk to a guy when he's looking at me with "the look" and has an erection, so I just walk away.
...or run away, literally, I don't want to get raped.....
2006-12-20 09:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One can't assumed that the erection is he result of staring or looking at you. Just walk towards the opposite direction. There is nothing to get made about. Learn to compose yourself.
2006-12-20 09:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would need to do some further research as to wether this was called for or not.
Just playing....that guy has problems girl. You should've thrown the squeegee at him.
2006-12-20 09:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL'S NO Y GET MAD AT THE GUY IT'S LIKE SAYING UR THE HOTTEST WOMEN I SEEN SINCE FERGIE,AND WE ALL KNOW HOW HOT SHE IS, THE GUY IS IN LOVE WITH WHAT HE SEEN I GUESS, TAKE IT AS A BIG COMPLIMENT. PS UR PROBABLEY A GOOD LOOKIN GAL
2006-12-20 09:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by vance b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah men get erection for no reason at all. especially teenagers. you are cool dude. nothing wrong with you
2016-03-29 01:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered. He's probably aroused by the way you look or dress.
No harm don't unless you're under aged.
2006-12-20 09:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋