I am in love with my ex. He's going out with my ex-best friend. I think we could have a future, through the way he treats me. Any tips on how to win him back. I love him.
2006-12-20 09:31:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was my FIRST LOVE. I will probably never get over that, but FIRST LOVE
2006-12-20 09:39:31 · update #1
Another thing, he wants to break up with his current girlfriend... It's not lost. We're still friends, but I just really wish I could be with him.
2006-12-20 09:41:47 · update #2
was this a first love? sounds like it. first loves are always the hardest ones to get over. but if he knows you are still holding on and he isn't then he doesn't care. if he wanted to be with you like you want to be with him then he would try. find someone else. i know, easier said then done, but believe me babe! if he treats you like crap, you shouldn't love him. believe me, everything will work out how it is supposed to. you will find someone that will love you like you think you love this guy... and they won't treat you like crap. good luck!!
2006-12-20 09:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DOnt forget about him the same thing happened to me take the chance and tell him exactly how u feel dont leave anything out and also get back at ur x best friend tell her that u really would have liked being her firend a little longer but if she was gonna be a a** then u dont have to b her friend better yet just tell him how u feel it will make u feel way better even though u may b nervous it happens but u could win him back :)
I hope it helps
From someone who has expeirienced that same thing!
2006-12-20 17:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you only have the feeling that you love him. I've been throught this loads of times: getting back to the ex, because I thought I loved him. Fisrt be sure about your feelings, try to think with "cold head".
If you realise that you love him, well then get closer to him and say that you wanna be good friends. Once you go out with him as "friends" you can strt to make the relationship to go further. A good tip could be to remeber him of your memories with him, but try to make it funny, like: "Gosh I remeber how my heart beated when you asked me to date (and then laug), probabily he will laugh also, but at home surely he will think that he felt the same way, and then he's going to ask himself if this could happen again. Oh and physical touch, take his hand or just touch him in a way (that you used to). Good luck, and about your ex-best friend, well she wasn't that good friend if she dates with your ex, cuz she should know that something is always remained in the heart os the lovers, even ex lovers. Good luck once again!
2006-12-20 17:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by asking_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest about how you feel before it's to late. I was in a similar situation. I thought he was happy with this girl and I didn't interfere and decided to be happy for him.
After they broke up my feelings came out one night we were together and he acted like if I had told him back then things would have been differnt. Though I don't know now cuz even after that night and the hope he fed me he is still pining after her.
All is fair in love and war. Just don't try to break them apart. Let him make that choice.
2006-12-20 17:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my husbands ex is still in love with him,she is the one that left him for someone else,then the guy she left him for died,she then began to want my husband back ,but by this time we were engaged.He told her no,and we married and almost 5 years later
she is still trying to manipulate him and our relationship,hello when do they stop.Do you think you really want him or is it the fact that someone else might.I say move on and if he is still interested he will let you know.
2006-12-20 17:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by mickeys girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you can have a future but how does he think...?There is no point of winning him back.....If he treated you well and respected he should not with your ex best friend.Just let it go.It is not easy but he is not worth the effort.You will find somebody who treats you like the queen you are.
2006-12-20 17:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by mwihakz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason. Move on with your life. If by chance he becomes single and you're still single then maybe you can try rekindling, but for now just move on and try to find someone else.
2006-12-20 17:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have the same for you as you or his in love with this ex-best friend of yours that might help you find out your next step. And wat was the reason for you two to break up wont that problem arise again.
2006-12-20 17:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its lost, its lost for a reason. He's with someone else. If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't let anything come between you.
2006-12-20 17:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry babe... i'd just leave it alone and try to move on with my life. why did you break up in the first place?... but trying to gt him back will just get MeSSy..
2006-12-20 17:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋