my mom and dad where just going out at the time of my conception he cheated on her with her best friend so she moved to a different country and she didnt even know his real name so now she has no way of locating him and i would really like to get to know my dad all i know about him is that he liked to sing
2006-12-20 09:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you do not have enough info to even begin a search. Unless your mom can get in touch with the so called best friend to possibly begin a trail.
2006-12-20 09:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your mom can help you track him. He must have family in the country she lived away from. Try locating any family or friends. I have found family just looking online. Try and talk to your mother and see what info she might have on him. She just may be saying she didn't know his real name because she doesn't care to know him for how he hurt her. Let her know you want to know him and his family. You may even try her old friends if she can contact them.
2006-12-20 17:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by phgl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a search, your mum must be knowing some particulars deinitely and if not of your father then of course of her best friend or her relative. That might helkp , just have a chat with your mum.
2006-12-20 17:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it really matter. Your real father is who ever brought you up. If that is your mum, your mums girl friend or your mums boy friend. It is all immaterial. That is your real father. If you are not happy with that then invent one. Write your self a story and give your self the dad you all ways wanted.
2006-12-20 17:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it isn't his real name or is mom just telling you that?
check your birth certificate
then go to http://zabasearch.com/
and look him up
also i totally agree with some of the above answers, the sperm donor isn't always a father or a dad, but the person who brought you up and cared for you is
but i understand the need for you to know your "real" dad
2006-12-20 17:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask alot of questions try to find out a name and or age and try ussearch other than that i wouldn' t know what to tell you find the town and counrty that he is in if possible or try to find a realitive. Good luck
2006-12-20 17:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.. yeah why would u want to unless u wanted to slap him or at least make ihm feel guilty.. but 2 find him birth certificate..
2006-12-20 17:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Improv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
Anyway, I am on the gulf coast.
2006-12-20 17:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think there is a way
if....
was he there when u were born
cause if so wouldnt it say his name somewhere on ur birth certificute
or maybe the hospital has paperwork
but idk
2006-12-20 17:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by ur_rich_jew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'D BE MORE CONCERNED WHY MY MUM HAD SEX WITH SOMEONE SHE DIDN'T KNOW--WHAT OTHER TRAVESTIES HAS SHE PUT YOU THROUGH???
2006-12-20 17:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋