so i have this friend and were just friend.. even tho i like him we've decided to be just friends and i got a boyfriend.. not the point though... but i was talking to him and everyday i wrote him a note.. to get my mind off things and tell him whats going on in my life since i dont get to talk to him much.. and today he told me that he dosent' read my notes just glances at them.. what do i do? do i keep writting notes but not as much or just stop writing notes all together?
2006-12-20 09:30:57 · 18 answers · asked by imlovingit13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you write notes to your boyfriend? I don't think by him saying that he just glances at them doesn't mean he is going to stop being your friend. Ask him questions in your note to get him to respond.
2006-12-20 09:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by S.A.M. 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, if you have a boyfriend, but you like this other guy then it's not right to lead him on. I don't mean to get all preachy, but it's just wrong. BREAK UP WITH THIS DUDE. Second call up your friend and lay it on the line. "I like you." You want your guy, then you have to take that chance, and get rid of any regrets about doing it. If he doesn't like you then he just lost out on something big. But since you guys had a past you will probably have a lot of mixed emotions about each other. I think you need to be totally honest with him, in person, so he'll listen, and know you're being sincere.
2006-12-20 09:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he knew that you've already have a boyfriend, those notes mean nothing to him. Stop writting altogether.
2006-12-20 09:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not going to read them then why take the time out of your life to write them? if you're going to write a note, write it to someone who will actually read them and write back.
2006-12-20 09:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't write him anymore. find someone else to write so you can get things off your mind. if he doesn't read them, your wasting your time writing the notes. write notes to someone that will actually read them.
2006-12-20 09:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont write the notes
2006-12-20 09:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say stop writing them... he wouldn't "just glance" if he really wanted to read them. and boys aren't as into notes as girls C:
2006-12-20 09:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl stop writng notes to him...if he doesnt have time to read a serious note from you well then you shouldnt have time to write him the notes...you shouldnt even talk to him because thats messed up...its like he doesnt have time for you or somethin!!
2006-12-20 09:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop writing notes altogether. why waste your time pouring out your feelings to someone who really could care less?
2006-12-20 09:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and find out if he is jealous and if he is try to spend just alone time with him and explain that he did say he wanted to be just friends to , it was a mtaul decision
2006-12-20 09:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋