Theres this guy that I like and his friend is one of my close friends. ( Tbh, I think I became friends with her to meet him) I haven't told her I like him, yet, though. I'm really shy and I think hes just a bit shy to tell a girl he likes her even though hes had like thirty-something girlfriends before. I think he likes me because at times he comes around to where me and my friend are sitting/standing and strikes a conversation with her although it's obvious he is trying to get me to join in as he glances my way every 5 seconds but I cant because I'm too shy. And sometimes I see him staring at me. I never had an actual conversation with him though.Here is the problem: We dont go to the same school (but i see him every day cuz I take a class at his school) but tomorrow will be my last day seeing him (god-willing that he comes to school) because that class is over for the semester. What should I do?
2006-12-20 08:51:44 · 9 answers · asked by sharron n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing. I dont believe in approaching guys. If a guy wants you, he'll come and get you. Even the shyest of guys figure out how to muster up enough guts to go after the girl they want. There are plenty of fellas out there who will be asking themselves "how can I get HER to notice me?". Wait for one of them to come along!
2006-12-20 09:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by SassyC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't just blurt out your fellings it might scare him away flir with and be nice to him suttle is the best way if he is shy. Find out if he likes a type of sport or event try and find tickets and ask him (suttle again) if he wants to go with you. If he is on a sports team and they win give him something like a chocolate bar or his fav candy. tell him whan you get a time alone that you had a dream that you guys where boyfriend and girlfriend if he says sumthing negative back off and laugh and say sumthing like "i know it was the stupidest dream" (stay cool) but if he blushes or smiles bring up the idea of dating 4 real. don't tell everyone that you are thinking about asking him out it may scare him off and the wost thing that could happen is he find out from sum1 else. and if he says no back off for a while and let him get over it then restart your relationsship from friends. DON'T ASK HIM MORE THAN ONCE if his feelings change after your friends again leave it to him to ask.
2006-12-20 17:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kaydi Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catch him glancing at you or trying to get you involved in a conversation than you have already got him to notice you. Give him a Christmas card and strike up a conversation about your Christmas vacation and what your doing and let him know you would like to keep in touch over the break. Exchange numbers and see where it goes from there.
2006-12-20 16:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ennio D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet him again, ask him if he is in town for christmas/new year and what he is doing. If he is interested, he should take a hint from your question. Most probably he will ask you what you are doing. Then take it from there. Depending on both of yours' schedules, plan to meet sometime during the holidays or after. This is a great time of the year to ask someone out, take advantage of it.
2006-12-20 17:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nick_D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him if he wants to hang out over christmas break.
or ask for his number.
then he'll know taht youre interested in him.
or at least as a friend if you find out hes not interested in you the same way.
hopefully if he accepts your invitation to do something with him, it will give you guys a chance to get closer.
that way it will make both of you more comfortable and open around each other.
once taht happends maybe he'll hide his shyness and ask you out.
either way, if you can get him to hang out with you, you have a much better chance of gettgin to know him.
good luck :]
2006-12-20 16:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sterlinggg. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your last chance to get the courage to speak to him. Tell him that you think he is a great guy and would like to stay in touch with him and give him your number. If he is interested in you he will call.
2006-12-20 16:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you sence tomorrow is your last day i would talk to him and flirt with him...i know you are shy but it is the only way you can see him again is if you flirt with him and he knows he likes you he would ask you out....just try whatever you like but this is what i would do.
GOODLUCK!
2006-12-20 16:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go out...
2006-12-20 16:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to him,duhhhhh
2006-12-20 16:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋