since I din't get any help at all with any of this I've decided to just end it all this time...I loved her, no one showed...it's time to die. At least I'll be with her right????
And i've decided to use ANSWERS one last time to ask:
...................How should I do it????I don't care for smart *** remarcs I'm freakin' serious now!
Trust me. It's either this or me goin' crazy and dispatching countless others in may state of disposition!!!
2006-12-20 08:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by silvex_phortuskai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
perhaps my situation is far too vague...................................................................................................................................We were to be married this very week!
She died one week before the wedding................................................................................................................................We were to go to the big apple and have it on the roof top of some building that doesn't matter now.........................................but still..................................................................we'd been dating for five years....................
And I had finally got the courage to ask her for her hand...................
And this happens...................................
2006-12-20 09:09:39 · update #1
I know you're only tring to help, but the so called professional help, has the first of the top rates in suicide its self.... why get help from someone whos worse off than me?
2006-12-20 09:17:14 · update #2
What do you mean you loved her an no one showed? If you are contemplating suicide I beg you please don't do it. It's not the answer to any problem. Life is too precious, even the hard **** is worth living through. Email me sher1206@yahoo.com and I'll do my best to help you work through this.
2006-12-20 08:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by sher1206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer; nor is homicide.
Your life may be Hell right now, but if you can get through this one day...and the next...you'll eventually look back on your life and realize that you had decades of happiness that would have all been chucked out the window if you'd ended it all.
There's got to be a suicide help line or youth help line you can call - here in Canada I'd call the Youth Help Line, for example. Talk to them, or talk to God - sometimes just knowing someone is listening can make a difference.
Yes, you ARE in pain, but it gets better. Really - it may take a while, but the nice thing about life is that you always have the chance to start fresh.
2006-12-20 16:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are pretty upset. I would encourage you to take a step back and look at your situation. If you realized how big the world is and how many freakin women there are, you wouldn't even be saying this. If you go to a site that has mail order brides, not suggesting that you get one, but look at some of the girls that are dying to find someone just like you. THEY ARE FREAKIN GORGEOUS!!!! All you have to do is import the one you want. It's like picking out your favorite candy.Forget this one girl and get back on the horse. She doesn't sound like your solution. Take care of yourself and let me know if there is anything that can be done to improve your outlook on life
2006-12-20 17:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Charles R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life comes with many feelings,you can be happy,sad,lonely,mad and scared,right now you're scared,yes,you think you can't handle some things and you're scared to confront them,when you really love someone,it hurts,it makes you cry.You think that ending your life is the solution,it's not.people will forget you real fast and you will be in hell suffering even more.Look,get some professional help and as time pass,you will feel much better,it's a matter of time.you'll see.good luck!
2006-12-20 17:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have enough sense to recognize yourself as a potential threat to others, then this bit of attention-seeking isn't really going to help you. Go get some professional help.
2006-12-20 16:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>.< sorry because of ur seriousness i can't really stand the inconsideration on here... >.> anyways... on w/ my answer and please take it seriously because im taking ur question seriously
NO PERSON! UR NOT GON' B WITH HER IF U DIE! u think there's life after death? that with your death u can wander around being a happy ghost couple? please be realistic and think about it carefully... you might not think the way i do but i believe that once you die... you're dead... nothing more nothing less... you're soul rest until judgement day and apparently if you KILL YOURSELF you're goin to hell >.< as harsh as that sounds... so you love her... and you cared for her and she was important in your life... well chances are you were important in her life too when she was still alive... do you honestly think she'd be happy if she were to find out you want to kill yourself? sure she's dead but her presence is still there... in your heart... your memories of her keeps her alive... if you die... she is FOREVER GONE... if you die you would FORSAKE her and yourself........ >.>
wat you need to do is to
of you don't think of yourself... think of her... and her past wishes for you... think of those who still love you know... think of everyone around you... you feel pain and i understand that... do u want to bring other people that very same pain? =\ im trying to place myself in your shoes... now please...... place yourself in other ppl's shoes 2... u hurt... buh u can heal... u don't have to forget her... but u need to realize you can't get her back... please... please live your life and come 2 terms w/ ur emotions
sorry 4 the long answer
2006-12-20 17:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it may not seem like it, but if you give it time it will get better; and one day it won't matter at all...
2006-12-20 16:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by aloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean you like wanna kill your self someone said that you can inhaul that stuff that comes out of the back of the truck you know the tail pipe thing and go lay down and you will die in your sleep
2006-12-20 16:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Casey W 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What you are going through is clearly awful.
But you can get through this, seek some help.
I am sorry for your loss, hope you can get through this.
2006-12-20 16:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good go for it. u sould like a p*ssy anyway boo hooing over a bi*ch. grow some balls. wah wah she doesnt like me get over it and grow up. people break up all the time they dont go killing them selves they go and fu*k a drunk sl*t.
2006-12-20 16:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋